Lollypop74
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My 7 year old daughter has been riding 18 months and we bought a pony in May. She's a lovely pony, 17 only slight vice is she's a bit jumpy and spooky but not a nasty bone in her body.
We keep her at my sister in laws with one other horse.
My daughter is a nervous rider, she's had some bad experiences, lots of falls and as such the pony only has to do the slightest thing and her confidence is on the floor again. She went to pony club camp last week which she loved but was in a group way lower than what she's capable of but didn't want to be any higher as she wanted the security of a helper ready to lead her when she felt nervous.
She hacks out on her own very happily with the other horse but she can't do that very often as she's not always about. She hates riding in the paddock on her own and she's going backwards - this time last year she was cantering and starting to jump, now she worries about trotting. She's had some lessons with her old riding school teacher, not for a few weeks though, but she's got this mental block in our paddock now as she's fallen off a few times in there and now doesn't want to ride in it!
As I said the pony is great, not sharp and would never bolt, buck etc.
I'm at my wits end as I feel she's going backwards and am questioning whether to jack it all in. She's desperate not to and I feel awful but she's an expensive pet if she's not going to progress.
I've considered whether maybe she'd be better on a yard with more people and other children to ride with.
Any suggestions very gratefully received!
We keep her at my sister in laws with one other horse.
My daughter is a nervous rider, she's had some bad experiences, lots of falls and as such the pony only has to do the slightest thing and her confidence is on the floor again. She went to pony club camp last week which she loved but was in a group way lower than what she's capable of but didn't want to be any higher as she wanted the security of a helper ready to lead her when she felt nervous.
She hacks out on her own very happily with the other horse but she can't do that very often as she's not always about. She hates riding in the paddock on her own and she's going backwards - this time last year she was cantering and starting to jump, now she worries about trotting. She's had some lessons with her old riding school teacher, not for a few weeks though, but she's got this mental block in our paddock now as she's fallen off a few times in there and now doesn't want to ride in it!
As I said the pony is great, not sharp and would never bolt, buck etc.
I'm at my wits end as I feel she's going backwards and am questioning whether to jack it all in. She's desperate not to and I feel awful but she's an expensive pet if she's not going to progress.
I've considered whether maybe she'd be better on a yard with more people and other children to ride with.
Any suggestions very gratefully received!