kerilli
Well-Known Member
The WFP lecture demo got me thinking - when riding them, he was silent most of the time, apart from saying "Good" pretty regularly when they did something well, "No" when they made a mistake (rarely), and "Oi" when they thought a naughty thought. He talked to the audience, obviously, but not to the horse all the time!
I have realised that I chat away to them most of them time while schooling and also while handling them, especially the youngsters.
I think, and I know this sounds crazy, I'm still trying to work it out, that because I chat and 'explain' things to them as I do them, I over-expect them to understand - from what I have verbalised AS WELL AS my body language, aids etc. Totally crackers, and something I am going to do my best to limit from now on!
Perhaps sometimes I have been a bit impatient about them misunderstanding, because I have already told them (and explained it, in nice long words!!), rather than just repeating it (with aids/body language) and realising that I didn't 'tell' them clearly enough the first time! But because my brain thought "I've explained it clearly to you" (as I would have to a person) it was a bit annoyed that they hadn't got it the first few times.
Does anyone have a clue what I'm going on about? Does this ring any bells with anyone else... or am I the only garrulous muppet who chats to their horses all the flipping time?!
I have realised that I chat away to them most of them time while schooling and also while handling them, especially the youngsters.
I think, and I know this sounds crazy, I'm still trying to work it out, that because I chat and 'explain' things to them as I do them, I over-expect them to understand - from what I have verbalised AS WELL AS my body language, aids etc. Totally crackers, and something I am going to do my best to limit from now on!
Perhaps sometimes I have been a bit impatient about them misunderstanding, because I have already told them (and explained it, in nice long words!!), rather than just repeating it (with aids/body language) and realising that I didn't 'tell' them clearly enough the first time! But because my brain thought "I've explained it clearly to you" (as I would have to a person) it was a bit annoyed that they hadn't got it the first few times.
Does anyone have a clue what I'm going on about? Does this ring any bells with anyone else... or am I the only garrulous muppet who chats to their horses all the flipping time?!