HollyWoozle
Well-Known Member
Have had Belle for just over a year now, she was sold to us as hacking fine alone but her confidence crumbled after the move and we live in a very busy village. She is brave in traffic.
I tried once to hack her alone and she was quite sensible but would just not pass certain things, she utterly refused. This seemed to knock her confidence more and she started doing it even when someone was walking/cycling with us, though she would always go eventually with some encouragement. She would just stop at scary things (skips, playing field etc.) and nothing would make her go past. Sometimes she would turn around for home, though she wouldn't move in that direction.
In the past month or two we have had a real turn around and patience has paid off - she has settled right down (in all aspects) and will pass pretty much anything with someone on foot, bike or horse with us. We have a new horse arriving on Wednesday so we will be able to hack out together, but I don't want Belle to get in the habit of always needing another horse, I want to teach her to go alone.
I was thinking that I might start taking her out and riding just 5 mins up the road, giving her a big pat and then taking her home again. Then slowly going a little further and seeing how it works out. What do you think? We also have lessons about a 5 min hack away so I thought I could start walking back from those alone as we will be in the home direction.
I don't want to destroy her confidence.
Thank you.
I tried once to hack her alone and she was quite sensible but would just not pass certain things, she utterly refused. This seemed to knock her confidence more and she started doing it even when someone was walking/cycling with us, though she would always go eventually with some encouragement. She would just stop at scary things (skips, playing field etc.) and nothing would make her go past. Sometimes she would turn around for home, though she wouldn't move in that direction.
In the past month or two we have had a real turn around and patience has paid off - she has settled right down (in all aspects) and will pass pretty much anything with someone on foot, bike or horse with us. We have a new horse arriving on Wednesday so we will be able to hack out together, but I don't want Belle to get in the habit of always needing another horse, I want to teach her to go alone.
I was thinking that I might start taking her out and riding just 5 mins up the road, giving her a big pat and then taking her home again. Then slowly going a little further and seeing how it works out. What do you think? We also have lessons about a 5 min hack away so I thought I could start walking back from those alone as we will be in the home direction.
I don't want to destroy her confidence.
Thank you.