Tears after a whole two weeks of none!!

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I cant believe I'm here crying my eyes out again, after going a whole two weeks with no tears!! Can I ask a quick question?? Should I take away the photos, as when I look at them, it makes me cry. but i dont ever want to forget him, hence the photos.... I had logged off the internet, and turned on a cd that i made ages ago, but roxettes song, almost unreal, coupled with the photo, just had me in buckets of tears. Think I mite give up on photos and music, and then i wont cry. xx
 
Oh I really feel for you :-(

Please don't feel stupid at all, no one can predict something like that.

I guess nights are very hard for you,no doubt need to cry and no one can blame you xxxx
 
mandwhy said:
Oh I really feel for you :-(

Please don't feel stupid at all, no one can predict something like that.

I guess nights are very hard for you,no doubt need to cry and no one can blame you xxxx
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thank you, mandwhy, night time is crapy, wish i could knock myself out earlier in the night, it might somehow save my sanity. Am feeling a bit better, but i love music, and every single song makes me cry, so where do you go from there. i think music is a no no for a little while, it might make me a little bit better. (love being busy during the day, need to occupy my evenings, looks like tack may be forever spotless). xxxx
 
I have missed your previous posts about what has happened.
Have you thought about councilling? I lost a lot of close friends when i was in my teens, i went to see a councillor as i wasn't coping it really helped to talk and also they helped me to come up with ways to talk about it, im not a great talker!
PM me if you need a shoulder to cry on x
 
Bless you. Things are always magnified at night. Long hours, when the mind goes into overdrive. What you are experiencing is perfectly natural, and part of the grieving process. Not that any of this helps at the moment, I know. (((hugs ))) to you. xx
 
im so sorry for the awful time your having, but you dont need to do this alone- grieving takes a lot out of you ,go to see your GP and they can refer you for someone to talk to but also we are all here for you .xx
 
Agreed.. Talk to someone or us.. I'm a funeral service professional and have seen it all.. I promise how you feel is natural, and things will get easier with time.. It doesn't take away the pain and grief but it makes it bearable and in time you will smile much more than you cry..

My OH lost one of his sons aged 2.. 18 years ago.. There was never a cause found.. I have a couple of photos I keep for him and he has a tattoo of his name on his arm.. We do talk about him, most recently to OHs little girls.. I know that not a day goes by where he doesn't think of his little one, and it hurts him just as much but it and his son will always be a part of him..

Find comfort and support in those around you and your animals and I truly wish you peace of mind and a whole load of better days..

We are all still here for you and will continue to be xx
 
I'm still up at 2:18, and havnt felt the need to cry tonight, it's only every so often, but when it happens, i'm a blubbering idiot. I know it will take some time, and i am seeing a councellor, but that only works for a few days after seeing him. I'm very sorry to be wrecking your heads, but i feel so much better after posting, regardless of replies, it's like once i have written it, my brain processes it all faster/better. thanks for your replies, i promise i'll get better and wont depend on ye so much, hopefully soon, but thank you soooo much for looking after me. xx
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost a friend to cancer this time last year and I still go along thinking I'm fine and then I'll hear a song or see something that reminds me of her and fall apart again. Crying isn't a bad thing, it's a way to grieve. There are lots of us here to talk to so make use of us. Big hugs xxx
 
Glad your little better. My best mate died 9years ago, if i hear the song played at funeral i still turn into a teary mess. I hear it rarely on the radio but on what would have been her 21st the radio played it- i had to pull over it was very surreal.
Keep your chin up its natural x
 
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