The day we are dreading

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The day we are dreading is drawing nearer,
how will we cope without your welcoming wicker?
The empty stable to folded rugs will only emphasis our loss,
you allowed us to ride you, but we knew who was boss!
You have seen us through the worst of times,
your beautiful head, the power the grace, the steadfast gaze, the love you gave can never be replaced.
Your time has come all to soon,
its been an honour to know you, run free big boy with those we have loved that have gone before you.



We have noticed that Dark_Knights horse Sir hasn't looked quite right, so he was scanned last week, finding a tear of the proximal lateral margin of the DDFT left hind. Prognosis is poor, and even with surgery and 6 mths box rest, return to any sort of athletic activity is guarded, plus there is a high chance of sustaining a similar injury on the other leg.

D_K has known this horse since he was 3 months old, (now 15 )and has hardly ever gone a day without seeing him, he knows this horse inside out and we have always agreed he is not the type to cope with not working. He hates it when the lorry goes out without him and stomps around the stable if he is not worked before the others. So on Wednesday morning we will say a final farewell to a horse of a lifetime.

D_K and the rest of our family dont know how we will manage without this wonderful horse, he is D_K's best friend, I joke that he thinks more of Sir than me! Sir saw us through the worst time of our lives when we though we were going to lose Mini D_K while waiting for his liver transplant. Sir always had a shoulder for us to cry on. listened and never judged. No other horse will ever replace him.

The memories of him will remain in our hearts forever, yes he could be a frustrating Muppet at times, he hated ditches and fillers to start with, I will never forget seeing him drop D_K head first into a ditch in front of a bank xc schooling, all I could see was a pair of long boots waving in the air. I am sure D_K will remember Sir for managing to make me look a fool most times I rode him, he always let me know that he was in charge and I was lucky to be on his back.

Sir has been a huge part of Minis life, from pushing his pram round the field with his nose when Mini was a day old, to pottering around the school behaving like he was carrying the crown jewels on his back. Not sure how Mini will take the news that Sir is leaving us for ever. My girls adore him and are both broken hearted that he will not be around fro years to come.

Sir may not competed to a high level, but he never had a xc fault while competing, he was a brilliant nanny horse and as herd leader at every yard he has been at kept order in the field without ever being aggressive.

A picture overload, and on Wednesday evening perhaps you can raise a glass to a horse that we can never ever hope to replace.

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That has me crying a little. It is lovely to hear of someone putting their horse first though even when it hurts so much.
Beautiful pictures. Will think of you on Wednesday.x
 
I am crying! Sir sounds like a total Gentleman who has well and truely earned his title of Sir.
The photos remind me of Beau, and the thought of loosing him reduces me to a quivering wreck so you have my full sympathies.

It is a horrible decision to have to make, but congrats on having the bravery to do it.
Massive <hugs> for all of you.

I will raise a glass to Sir on Wednesday.
 
So sorry for you. Went through exacty same as said goodbye to my old boy on Friday.

You know it's the right decision. And although if like me you are all crying buckets it does improve and you will be left with all those fabulous memories of how wonderful he was. RIP Sir off you go to rainbow bridge Xxxx
 
Your post has got my eyes filled up.....beautiful pictures and sounds like he will be sorely missed and true best friend.

My thoughts are with you, such a heartbreaking decision to have to make.

Reminds me of my chap who I lost in January, he was such a character and was the light of my life and there for me through difficult times. But it was 100% this right thing to do and we have to do the right thing by them.

Love the picture of mini D_K feeding him grass and the ride and lead.....looks like a lovely kind chap and he is lucky to have had you in his life xx
 
Be thinking of you on Wednesday. Am in tears as well - we lost a horse on our yard a week or so ago and even though he wasnt mine, its hit us all hard. Good night and god bless, Sir.
 
Your post has left me with tears in my eyes. What a beautiful tribute to a much loved horse. I'll raise a glass and say a prayer for you all on wednesday. Take comfort in the fact you are doing the right thing for him. Lots of love xx
 
I'm so sorry to hear it, but you know you are doing the right thing for your horse. I had to make a similar decision with mine, and had him PTS last Wednesday :(
 
What a beautiful tribute to a most beautiful horse. Had me too, in tears. Not long since I said goodbye to my beautiful boy, so I shall be thinking of you all on Wednesday. I hope it will go as well as these things can go. Happy memories of a lovely horse for you , you are very caring owners, your horse is so lucky to have had you looking out for him all these years , hugs x
 
All my horsey life Sir has always been there, and everything you've written, Mum, couldnt be anymore truer or any better written.
I'm in tears again, he is going to be missed by the whole family, the whole yard and definitely our whole herd.
Wednesday is going to be a hard day for us all, but mostly for D_K. Sir was something extra special for him and it breaks my heart to know goodbyes are going to have to be said

We all love you Sir.
 
Thank you evryone for your kind words, I hope I haven't made too many people cry!
Huge sympathies for anyone else that has lost a horse recently.
We told Mini D_K this afternoon, cue a waterfall of tears (from all of us!), but a very sensible little boy who, although who will miss Sir a much as his Dad doesn't want Sir to be in pain.
I think we had better take out shares in Kleenex this week, a good friend on the yard will be losing her horse on Thursday, our thoughts are with her as well. I feel sorry for the other liveries having to put up with our miserable faces!
 
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