NiceChristmasBaubles
Well-Known Member
Im trying to anticipate a stop, then i find myself kicking and flapping almost constantly and then stop cuz thats not good riding and then we're back to square one.
Loads of good advice given above so I won't repeat it. But in reference to worrying about good riding - don't. He is basically having you on and there are times when you need to forget what you look like and be bloody minded about making him go where you want him to go. Pony club kick him, spin him, smack him, whatever (as long as it doesn't reach cruelty level obviously!), but damn well make him go where you want him to. A few times of that and it'll be like taking candy off a baby. Good luck.