Thinking of euthenasia at this point

Oh honey, I have been following this tread and am so sorry to read this.

You were the best mum in the world.

<<<<<<<<HUGS>>>>>>>>
 
carrie ive just read thispost from start to finish and i feel so sad for you the tears are freely running down my face.
i lost my 15hh heavy sec d cob to lammi at age 17, hed never
had it before either , it brought back all the memorys, dont ever doubt your decision it is a truly wicked illness, and i like you could see in his eyes that hed had enough,
you truly have done the right thing xx
 
Oh Carrie, I've only just seen your post and I am so dreadfully sorry. Please don't ever think or let anyone tell you that you did not do your best for your horse! She was a lucky, lucky mare to have an owner like you that cared for and loved her so, so much!! This has actually made me cry and I've never met you or your mare. Hugs to you.
 
Hi Carrie,

I think what has happened and your postings on here have had a huge effect on loads of us on here. I'm sure we all wish that we could have changed the outcome for you but we couldnt.

We all deal with grief in different ways, I found I had to pack everything away and get friends to deal with the practicalities. Then slowly over a period of time the photos etc could come back out.

You just have to find the best way for you to get through this. I remember people saying that things would get better in time and I didnt believe them - but eventually I came to terms with it. I still miss my old horse and always will. But as someone else said you get to remember all the good times.

I am currently fighting to make the best decisions for another horse, and have read your postings with tears streaming down my face, just wishing I could make things different for you.

Please take care of yourself and I hope you start to feel a bit better soon.

Take Care - Wendy
 
I have only just come across this thread, but I just wanted to say how sorry I was for your loss. I think Brighteyes is right about the "whatifs". You did everything you could for her, including the bravest thing of all - ending her pain. She will always be with you and with time the pain will lessen, but will never go away.

Hugs.
 
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