Thoroughbred separation anxiety

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I have had a rescued TB mare since xmas, very little known about her past other than 12 yrs old with large granulated scar on hind leg. She is lovely to handle - most of the time - though she has very bad separation anxiety. She will leave the yard and sometimes wont put a foot wrong, then other days acts like a complete nutter and naps really badly. Yesterday she freaked out when I brought her out of the field, because the horses had been moved to a new field a little further away and she wanted to get back to her companions - until now they have been grazing next to the yard.
At this stage I am still working from the ground long reining, lungeing and leading out which is helping, but when she does nap, it is getting more severe (though less frequent). It is totally unpredictable where and when, and generally ends up with her either planting her feet, or trying to back into me. She reins back very well, but even using this against her doesn't seem to help. She also shakes like a jelly from the start of the napping, and on a bad day returns to the yard covered in foam. The other day she split my partners' head open with all her head swinging.
She did shy badly when I first had her, and Ive managed to cure this more or less, though I still get the odd bruised foot. In 20 years of horse experience I have never met such an unpredictable horse!
I am using a variety of approaches, lots of pressure-release, etc etc though I have given her a smack with the whip now and again. Her napping is equally bad with a "soft" or "tough" approach and as I say, it is unpredictable and erratic - some days nothing, some days awful (even on the same routes).
Any suggestions? Btw I am slightly concerned at the number of whip-them-til-they-crack replies on here, I am 100% sure this would cause her to have a nervous breakdown,she is far too highly strung and sensitive for that kind of approach!
 
Yes I have ridden her and she was exactly the same! Am sticking with groundwork for now, though trying to keep it as varied as possible...I just wonder sometimes if she will ever be "normal"!!! Anyone had any similar experiences?
 
You have obviously done well so far - a TB mare with an unknown and uncertain past is going to take a long time to settle down and bond with you, so your consistent approach is definitely the way to go. Is there a reason that you haven't ridden her yet? The best way to give a anxious horse confidence is to go out with another steadier horse and then gradually go in front and then leave the other horse, or perhaps meet it on route. If this is not possible and you are on the ground "on your own" so to speak, have you considered the 7 Parelli games? I know some people knock this approach, but when I bought a traumatised Polo pony mare some years ago, it did wonders for her. Good luck with your mare - it sounds as if she is lucky to have you - I would be interested in how you get on.
 
I think your doing good from the sound of it.

As for the napping i have just had a horse here that naps & rears. Its taken 6 months to start getting him right, the first three months i spent doing nothing but ground work. Leading first then progressing to longreining & then lunging it took forever to build up his confidence. I also had multiple Chiro visits as we found he had a back problem. This was maybe the start of the napping.

He's now ridden & does still napp but its no where near what he was doing. I also stay on him untill i get something positive ie he does a full lap of the school in trot without trying to napp.
However the napping is now to a minimum & he's starting to give up fighting but i never fight back so i keep his adrenaline low. I sit quiet until he's had his paddy then i ask him to walk on.
If she's planting could you ask her to step one step to the right or left?? I really cant recommend doing longliening enough for nappers but build her confidence up in hand first. Simple groundwork exercises like stopping when you stop.

As for seperation anxiety that can take a while to sort out as well. Can you start by just seperating her for a short while for a week & then build it up.

Best of luck keep us updated.
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Thanks for all the replies so far - it's good to have a bit of reassurance! There's nothing like a problem horse to make you doubt yourself...will keep you updated with our progress. Will also try Parelli. Unfortunately there's nobody else to ride out with, it would definitely help her but there you go. It's going to be a case of perseverance I think!
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Hi , bit worried by your post as I only took my tb mare on 3 weeks ago but I have already seen some of what you have said . when she is good she is very very good but when she looses it there is no getting through to her . Not just separation but also commotion sets her off so decided to go off to the saddlers today for a feed suppliment , global have a newish one that is specially balanced for tbs called thoroughbred calmer . too early to say if its any good but I thought you would like to know
 
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