To move or not to move

Marigold4

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Having to make a decision on moving house by Monday and need some help thinking this through!

We've got about 24 hrs to make a decision to sell or not to sell our house. Can you help me weigh up the decision.

We've had an offer accepted on a nearby house with a field and have got two really good offers for our house. Just trying to think the move through. Our own house is lovely and finished but now the kids are grown up we don't use the whole house and it feels a bit empty. We rent a field next door and have built our own stables (American barn style) in our garden. The roof leaks and we need to spend money on re-roofing. Field is 4 acres, loam, well-draining but I have to lead the horses from stables to field across a busy footpath - in summer there can be 50 people a day. There is a sycamore tree on one side that means I can't use some of the field and spend the autumn weeks picking up seeds and worrying about it. The people who own the tree won't hear of taking it down. Field has a bindweed problem. It has electricity and water. Can't see the horses from the house. I have a mobile shelter but other than that there's not much natural shelter or shade. I've no reason to think that the person renting to me would take the field away but they could. I have access to a bridleway but have to ride through a busy village square to access it. Cars from the local school and pub sometimes make it difficult to get my lorry out as they park on the keep clear sign at the end of our lane. We have busy holiday lets on two sides.

New house needs LOTS of work but we're both looking forward to a project as we are winding down work-wise. We would make enough money from our sale to do it up properly. It is smaller and cosier. It's a much quieter location (a hamlet of 4 houses) rather than the current full-on village setting. There are brick-built stables (American barn style) but in need of work. There is a door from the house into the stables so I wouldn't have to go outside in the cold and rain when they are in! There are other outhouses and a 3.7 acre field. It is loam and well draining. No sycamores. Water but no electrics although this could be sorted, I think. needs re-fencing. Field can be seen from the house. It is surrounded by hedges with another hedge down the middle. Trees on one side (mostly hazel and ash) provide shade. I can move my mobile shelter there. However, I would have to lead the horses across and along a narrow track (a journey of about 60 feet) to get from field to stable. The track is quieter than the footpath but there would be the odd car from the neighbours and if the horses play up and get away they could end up on a road if they took off down the track (unlikely but possible). Access to a whole network of bridleways. I would own the field. Near the same village so still in touch with same friends.

Would you move? Is the upheaval worth it? I guess it's down to how much do I value the security of owning my own field after renting 3 different fields for 20+ years. Would the dangers of crossing the track put you off? But no more sycamore dangers.
 

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Sounds like an obvious choice to move as long as the hedges have been checked for anything poisonous or is easily fence off or removed.
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Thanks, everyone! No one worried about having to lead the horses across a track between the field and stables where there is a chance, if something goes wrong, they could end up running down to the road? There's no gate across to stop that happening. Anyone else have to do this?
 

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The horses could get onto the road many ways where they are now, I wouldn’t let the potential of it stop me from buying a house where I own the land. Land is hard to come by these days, it’s a no brainer - move.

If you really didn’t want to deal with the lane way you could put in planning for stables in the field or pop up a “mobile” wooden stable block.
 

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I’d be moving like a shot! You can always change the house but you can’t easily change the location/land. The new setup sounds far preferable, even with the leading horses between field and stable. There are always risks, a horse can always get away from you out hacking and end up on the road for example, but it’s unlikely to happen if your horses lead well. They will also get used to the routine and will most likely do it on autopilot after a while!
 

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Thanks, everyone! No one worried about having to lead the horses across a track between the field and stables where there is a chance, if something goes wrong, they could end up running down to the road? There's no gate across to stop that happening. Anyone else have to do this?
I used to have to cross the road from my paddock to the farm buildings. Never thought twice about it. It was a minor country road but a rat run from the next village along. Only time it worried me was when I was bringing a horse across early morning to go to a show and there was some sort of rally on. Cars were going past at high speed at one minute intervals. That was a bit hairy. Crossing a track is so minor compared with all the pros of the potential new place.
 

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Definitely move. Sounds lovely!

I walk my horses down the road to their field. It’s a quiet dead end road and never really thought about them getting away. And we never seem to meet any traffic either but I guess mine get put out pretty early. I wouldn’t let that put you off.
 

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Bear in mind that building costs have gone up hugely since brexit/covid/Ukraine/Gaza. Possibly 60% higher. We started a deep retrofit a month before Ukraine was invaded ( with QS report) and the extras due to fuel prices, import difficulties and lack of building trades are eye watering.
I wouldn’t be bothered by the track and smaller house and your own field sounds great.
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Have you had estimates for the work that needs doing? We bought a house post Covid with a barn which we planned to convert to part of the house but the quote for doing it this year was absolutely eye watering…no way can we afford it now 😂

Other than that, move!
 

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Thanks for the thoughts on building costs. That is useful advice.

House is badly in need to an update but basically habitable with heating that works. All the things that need doing would be nice to do, but not essential to any timescale. As far as we can see all the roofs on house, stables and outbuildings are fine so that should be a major cost out of the way. So plan is to do the stables first as they are not really usable as they are, then sit tight in the house and have a think about what we want to do to it/how much it will cost. We converted the place we are selling from scratch- took us 27 years but we did it! We lived in our previous house while it was a building site for months: no kitchen, no doors, no heating etc with two small children in middle of winter so we can sit it out until we find the right materials/builder at the right price for each bit.
 

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Definitely move. Sounds lovely!

I walk my horses down the road to their field. It’s a quiet dead end road and never really thought about them getting away. And we never seem to meet any traffic either but I guess mine get put out pretty early. I wouldn’t let that put you off.
Thanks Peglo and Errin Paddywack for those reassurances. The track is my biggest concern so great to have some second thoughts on it.
 

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I'd move. It's pretty rare to find a setup where there is literally no way for a panicking horse to (eventually) access a road, so I'd stop worrying about it. Probably most of us live with that every day and don't even think about it.

The security of owning your land, plus having a smaller house, sound like huge bonuses to me. Is the new house liveable as it is? That would be my only concern - the current cost of building work! But if it's liveable and you can tackle the renovations over time, I'd be falling over myself to move.
 

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We massively downsized 2 years ago. It is complete bliss.
We are no longer flat ass broke, we use every room in our new house and love all of it.
That sounds positive! I hate the idea that we only use half of our present house now. We basically use kitchen, snug and bedroom. The new place has enough beds for family to stay though, but in a different bit that can be shut up when they are not here.
 
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