Today..I lost my Desi. RIP fella.

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Cant quite believe I'm posting this......so sudden.

Sunday...galloping accross cornfields.
Yesterday....right as rain in the field.
This morning....bit off colour. Lying down in field.....looked a bit colicy so we did the old walking around and he did a poo so I thought great, should be OK. Didn't pick up....called the vet who came in about 30mins, in which time he was pawing the ground, trying to get down.

Vet came....rectal exam ok...tubed him.....loads of stomach contents came up. She was brilliant- explained it was bad...most likely some sort of benign growth which wraps around the intestine and 'strangles' it. 2 options...3 hours (at least ) journey to Liverpool for a major op and at least a months box rest- which to Desi would have been a nightmare. Or put to sleep.

I couldnt decide. So he had painkillers and sedatives and a mooch in the field whilst I fell to pieces.

Bearing in mind he was at least 20, the chance he may not pull through and the box rest issue.....I took the decision to have him put to sleep.

Within an hour or so the painkillers were wearing off and he was starting to look miserable again. I called the vet who came straight back out....by which time he was pawing the ground again. The vet said she was sure he wouldn't have made the journey he had deteriorated so fast.

So today at 4.20pm Desi went to sleep in his paddock.

I'm still in shock. I can't cry anymore. The suddeness is partly a blessing....none of that wondering if I should give him another winter...he was belting around the paddock yesterday like a 4 year old...and apparantly thats the way this thing goes. No signs...then wham.

Give your horses an extra cuddle tonight and please please never take them for granted. I thought my lad had years left with me.

Be at peace Des....see ya lad.
 
Im so sorry to read this. At least he had a quick and fairly painless end.. i think you made the right decision. too many people keep their animals alive for their own sake rather than doing whats best for the animal. how old was he?
 
So sorry have a((((((((((( hug)))))))))))) sounds a real lovely fella, good age at 20 think of the good times and that hes at peace galloping around cornfields in horsey heaven.x
 
So sorry for your loss.
He'll be galloping around causing mayhem up above there I'm sure by the sounds of him.
I'd hug you if i could but I can't so this will have to do (((((((((HUG)))))))))
 
OMG How awful. I'm so sorry...

A similar thing happened to me with my first jumping pony, It's sooo devestating when it happens, but at least you didn't have to watch him get old and doddery and see him in pain. I know it's not much help right now, but it does get easier...

Just remember all the fun times.

So so sorry...

RIP Desi

xxx
 
I'm so sorry. Its an awful shock for you but the best way for him. Swift and as painless as posisble. He was lucky to have a mum like you.
Remember him as he was only days ago - he's running free like that now on the other side of the rainbow bridge.
Run free Desi.
RIP
 
Thanks peeps.

Yes, at least he didn't get infirm. Although when he was in pain he suddenly looked 'old'.

OH was devastated too bless him.

He was such a lovely 'person' and I loved him loads. Not everybodys cup of tea and by no means perfect, but he was special to me.
 
I'm very sorry to read of your loss. I know it's never an easy thing to have to cope with but at least you were there for him.

As other's have said, Remember him as he was, look at your photo's and cry untill you can't see any more. It takes time but the pain will ease xxxl
 
ow dear im so sorry for your loss:(

I lost a horse i looked after full time through a lipoma (growth) wrapped around the intestine to only She went to surgery and had 14 ft of intestine removed. She was young only 11 and very fit. she sadly died 12 weeks later after nursing her, horrific ordeal for me and the poor horse she went through hell . I wish i had of let her go quietly in the field too.

big hugs to you x
 
poppymoo,

sometimes the correct decisions are the hardest. You can raise your head with pride. You made a brave and responsible decision. I know that it doesn't help. Nothing does, but well done, just the same.

Alec.

ETS, I too have seen the jewellery site where they use horse hair. Excellent idea.
 
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