PipsqueakXy22
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Hi so about 3 months ago I started part loaning a 20 year old horse 3 times a week as I wanted something I can do a bit more with, nothing spectacular just a few shows, and have the odd jumping lesson now and then... But I have Come to find that his owner actually already does a lot with him. She rides him almost every day, competes him in elementary dressage and takes him out showjumping. On my days I go up in the evenings but she will already have ridden him in the morning. She seems very keen for me to do lessons with him, but for instance last week I had a showjumping lesson from a regular visiting instructor to the yard (which she had suggested I try) I assumed she meant that I would do the lesson instead of her but instead she did a jumping lesson in the morning then I did a jumping lesson in the evening… in all honesty I don’t even know why she needs a sharer, though I assume it might be something to do with costs…
The thing is he doesn’t seem to struggle too much, except from lack of energy sometimes but he is the push button type of horse and I’ve been told he’s been that way all his life. But I still can’t help but feel guilty for doing all this on a 20 year old horse… I know I’m quite soft and over protective when it comes to horses but I don’t want to push him to the point he’s crippled before retiring him. If he were my horse I’d only be riding him once a day, jumping him once a week maybe twice max etc… but currently he’s being ridden twice a day on my days, jumped maybe 3 times per week by his owner, and if I jump him, which I have been doing every other week, then it’s 4 times. Plus the lady gets two lessons per week, I ususallt do about one, meaning he’s doing 3 lessons per week. On top of this he’s out competing 1-3 times per month… just seems like an awful lot for a 20 year old horse… My own horse is 13 and semi retired only hacking and light schooling 3/4 times per week, but he does have arithis and other lameness issues…hence why I wanted another share horse to do a bit more with… the thing is he seems to be sound and fit, and everyone comments on how good he looks for his age, which he does look amazing, I don’t think you could tell he was 20 by looking at him. The only thing is he gets his hocks injecting once a year I believe, though I’m not sure for what.
I guess I just wonder whether or not it’s worthwhile continuing the share, had this been an 8 year old horse I would probably have no issues but it’s the fact that he’s 20…like I say he’s sound but sometimes he seems like he lacks energy… so some days I come down in the evening wanting to school or hack - nothing intense! Just a 20 mins schooling session, or perhaps go for a little short canter round the fields but find he seems tired since he had a lesson with his owner in the morning so instead I go for a gentle walk only round the field…but it seems like a lot of money to be paying to walk a horse round the field (when I could really just do that on my own horse)… I am quite fond of him, but I keep thinking it’s a bit pointless for me to come (and pay for it)…
like I say he seems to cope fine other than lack of energy, I’m just not sure if it’s all in my head and I could potentially just school him even if he’s been ridden in the morning…the owner seems very keen for me to do lots she’s always asking if I want to do a lesson or a show etc…
any thoughts/ advice? What would you do?
The thing is he doesn’t seem to struggle too much, except from lack of energy sometimes but he is the push button type of horse and I’ve been told he’s been that way all his life. But I still can’t help but feel guilty for doing all this on a 20 year old horse… I know I’m quite soft and over protective when it comes to horses but I don’t want to push him to the point he’s crippled before retiring him. If he were my horse I’d only be riding him once a day, jumping him once a week maybe twice max etc… but currently he’s being ridden twice a day on my days, jumped maybe 3 times per week by his owner, and if I jump him, which I have been doing every other week, then it’s 4 times. Plus the lady gets two lessons per week, I ususallt do about one, meaning he’s doing 3 lessons per week. On top of this he’s out competing 1-3 times per month… just seems like an awful lot for a 20 year old horse… My own horse is 13 and semi retired only hacking and light schooling 3/4 times per week, but he does have arithis and other lameness issues…hence why I wanted another share horse to do a bit more with… the thing is he seems to be sound and fit, and everyone comments on how good he looks for his age, which he does look amazing, I don’t think you could tell he was 20 by looking at him. The only thing is he gets his hocks injecting once a year I believe, though I’m not sure for what.
I guess I just wonder whether or not it’s worthwhile continuing the share, had this been an 8 year old horse I would probably have no issues but it’s the fact that he’s 20…like I say he’s sound but sometimes he seems like he lacks energy… so some days I come down in the evening wanting to school or hack - nothing intense! Just a 20 mins schooling session, or perhaps go for a little short canter round the fields but find he seems tired since he had a lesson with his owner in the morning so instead I go for a gentle walk only round the field…but it seems like a lot of money to be paying to walk a horse round the field (when I could really just do that on my own horse)… I am quite fond of him, but I keep thinking it’s a bit pointless for me to come (and pay for it)…
like I say he seems to cope fine other than lack of energy, I’m just not sure if it’s all in my head and I could potentially just school him even if he’s been ridden in the morning…the owner seems very keen for me to do lots she’s always asking if I want to do a lesson or a show etc…
any thoughts/ advice? What would you do?