SaffronWelshDragon
Well-Known Member
Just after some advice / feedback really. I come from a non-horsey family - I was very lucky to get my first pony when I was 11, which didn't leave much money for other things, such as going out competing etc. Wizz on a few years (I'm 28) - I am now very much wanting to get out competing (particularly dressage).
However, I have a two pronged problem. Firstly, Saf, my 19 year old, whom I've had since she was 7, has done hardly any travelling since I've had her - only the last few years have I got my mojo back, having been very happy hackers previously and not motivated to do much else. So she has a worrying habit of, firstly not loading (she's just very stubborn and plants) and once she's loaded, she has been improving with a pressure headcollar, lunge rope and lots of treats, we will shut the ramp and she'll freak when she realises she can go backwards, and sit down! I think it worries me more than her. She always travels fine when we're going, arrives chilled and in no hurry to get out.
Secondly, is me. I have a lovely YO who happily lends me her trailer for a nominal fee. My OH has to tow due to me not have that extra bit of licence, not a problem but he's not that horsey so I feel a bit bad relying on him, even though he doesn't mind. This was all going well until my sis' Discovery failed it's MOT a few months ago. We couldn't afford to repair him, so he was sold. Sis now looking for a Freelander as would like something a bit more comfortable but still good in snow. Obviously we can't tow trailer with this
Partly I find the whole travelling thing hard, because I was never brought up doing it. I'm sure my worries are transferred to Saf, so she misbehaves.
So now what? I really love my own car, but it is a normal car and would never tow a trailer anyway, I am loathe to sell him as I've had him years and very reliable. The more I think about it the more I like the 3.5T lorries, I could drive one on my licence, they look very low stress (compared to a trailer!) Obviously the problem is money.
It's all very frustrating, I would love to go out competing but I'm stuck! So I would like to know, what would you do in my situation? And how do you all manage yourselves? What's your setup like? I would love to give load up, nip off to a comp, do our thing then come home.
Thanks if you got this far!
However, I have a two pronged problem. Firstly, Saf, my 19 year old, whom I've had since she was 7, has done hardly any travelling since I've had her - only the last few years have I got my mojo back, having been very happy hackers previously and not motivated to do much else. So she has a worrying habit of, firstly not loading (she's just very stubborn and plants) and once she's loaded, she has been improving with a pressure headcollar, lunge rope and lots of treats, we will shut the ramp and she'll freak when she realises she can go backwards, and sit down! I think it worries me more than her. She always travels fine when we're going, arrives chilled and in no hurry to get out.
Secondly, is me. I have a lovely YO who happily lends me her trailer for a nominal fee. My OH has to tow due to me not have that extra bit of licence, not a problem but he's not that horsey so I feel a bit bad relying on him, even though he doesn't mind. This was all going well until my sis' Discovery failed it's MOT a few months ago. We couldn't afford to repair him, so he was sold. Sis now looking for a Freelander as would like something a bit more comfortable but still good in snow. Obviously we can't tow trailer with this
So now what? I really love my own car, but it is a normal car and would never tow a trailer anyway, I am loathe to sell him as I've had him years and very reliable. The more I think about it the more I like the 3.5T lorries, I could drive one on my licence, they look very low stress (compared to a trailer!) Obviously the problem is money.
It's all very frustrating, I would love to go out competing but I'm stuck! So I would like to know, what would you do in my situation? And how do you all manage yourselves? What's your setup like? I would love to give load up, nip off to a comp, do our thing then come home.
Thanks if you got this far!
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