dorsetladette
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I think that is a really good idea.I have had an offer of an experienced rider coming to see him and do an assessment of him which I need to think about.
I think that is a really good idea.I have had an offer of an experienced rider coming to see him and do an assessment of him which I need to think about.
I have had an offer of an experienced rider coming to see him and do an assessment of him which I need to think about.
There is a lot of positive replies and I am grateful I just really worry about the ones that advise me not to get on him especially to hack out and to sell him. The hacking is the only thing I can do which I feel more comfortable about. So in my head I have to think between selling him and giving up riding altogether or persevering and trying to work with him and other more experienced people funds allowing. That's where I am at at the moment. I have had an offer of an experienced rider coming to see him and do an assessment of him which I need to think about.
It's not being said to make you worry but what happens if he breaks into trot or, as can happen occasionally, into canter on the road?
I would personally have one of the trainers we mentioned see him, as "experienced" can mean anything, especially as you don't have a depth of knowledge to judge this person's abilities or correctness. I mean I wouldn't put most grand prix dressage riders on any horse I owned, personally, for all sorts of reasons. But figuring that it's not possible to have out another trainer to the riding school?
Is there a Facebook group where you could ask? If it allows you to ask anonymously even better as then no one in the unhelpful riding school can say anything about itI don't personally know any trainers.
This why if she wants to hack him it is important to start with the jog trot work in an arena so if he breaks into trot hacking she can handle it with confidence , not later. now before she goes out on the road
I don't personally know any trainers.
I thought you asked if I knew anyone personally which I don't.We recommended several.
The only issue I have with this is that having arthritis if I don't ride regularly I sieze up sadly and then it's like starting all over again with the muscles.Oh I get that, but most of us would be saying don't ride, and strengthen from the ground first, both horse and rider.
I think a couple of us have recommended Sally Mitchell, she is in West Yorkshire.I don't personally know any trainers.
Thanks for that I was just searching through to find them. Has anyone a rough estimate of cost involved before I do contact anyone bearing in mind hes not a complete newbie?I think a couple of us have recommended Sally Mitchell, she is in West Yorkshire.
I also recommend Joe Midgely (recommended by someone else, although he historically has been more difficult to get to private clients where there isn't a clinic situation. He is the person who rode mine every week for ages when I wasn't at my most resourceful, but he is not as local to you as Sally would be. He was, however local to me, and fitted mine in before and after clinics on his way to or from home. I would have been happy for Sally to have ridden mine if she had been local.
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I thought you asked if I knew anyone personally which I don't.
The only issue I have with this is that having arthritis if I don't ride regularly I sieze up sadly and then it's like starting all over again with the muscles.
Thanks for that I was just searching through to find them. Has anyone a rough estimate of cost involved before I do contact anyone bearing in mind hes not a complete newbie?
This - I have no faith in that riding school.At the risk of simplifying things too much for you, sorry if teaching my grandmother to suck eggs . Your riding school sounds so unhelpful and has given you terrible advice from start to finish here. You say you can’t move as you don’t have any other riding schools that do livery near you, my point is that you don’t need a riding school, you have a pony now. Find a nice yard with a supportive yard owner that allows external instructors and has an arena. Then get a freelancer instructor and in an ideal world a sharer, even if you don’t charge them but just have someone with ability to ride a baby.
The worst thing for him would be working livery in this very odd set up where they can recommend a pony as suitable for a novice rider but yet not get on it themselves when it arrives , makes zero sense.
Do the groundwork, there’s a great book called cobs can with loads of exercises, plus some of the kelly marks, perfect manners etc. ride in the school in walk, there’s loads you can do. Get some professional help to get him trotting confidently, even if that’s just once a week for a few months, then you get trotting confidently. Forget canter for now if needs be.
If you buy a baby, you have to be prepared to spend money on their education. I have a four year old cob and I’m a lot more experience than you, but I’m paying my instructor to ride her twice a week at the moment, to really get the foundations in place.
Don’t sell him and give up, make it work. He sounds like a dude and hopefully will be perfect at some point.
People are blaming the riding school as they advised the OP that this would be a suitable horse to buy .It is unfair to blame the riding school. They are a riding school and that does not mean that they should offer a service to ride livery horses. Holding an AI does not make an instructor a wealth of experience.
OP has already bought a horse unseen and had a bad experience. I fail to agree how it is the fault of the RS that OP has done the same thing again. OP was given a lot of advice on the previous thread, all of which strongly directed them away from purchasing in this manner.
Now it is a case of improving a, currently, risky situation for a very novice rider with limited time and exposure around horses, let alone young green horses.
I can do the leg yield I have been thought that and use it.I know I said about selling and getting a schoolmaster, but you are riding him and if you continue to build on that, well done, and if you need to for your own benefit you will build muscle, so will he, you can do other things ad well as ride
It's just 2 things at the mo being able to cope if trots, the circle work, just the odd circle not thousands will give you the feel of slight bend at times, that tiny bend can also be used to control him, stop him, if he needs it when on the road
If you could teach him leg yield so you can move over out of the road to side would be a help to get of the way if needed, it's easy jasmine just put your leg on to move over and let your weight into the direction you want to go and move your hands in that direction
You would be a lot safer if able to do those things hacking
We had a large livery only yard close recently so many yards took those people on that's why finding a yard space is hard. I already know a freelance RI SO that wouldn't be an issue it's just finding a space.At the risk of simplifying things too much for you, sorry if teaching my grandmother to suck eggs . Your riding school sounds so unhelpful and has given you terrible advice from start to finish here. You say you can’t move as you don’t have any other riding schools that do livery near you, my point is that you don’t need a riding school, you have a pony now. Find a nice yard with a supportive yard owner that allows external instructors and has an arena. Then get a freelancer instructor and in an ideal world a sharer, even if you don’t charge them but just have someone with ability to ride a baby.
The worst thing for him would be working livery in this very odd set up where they can recommend a pony as suitable for a novice rider but yet not get on it themselves when it arrives , makes zero sense.
Do the groundwork, there’s a great book called cobs can with loads of exercises, plus some of the kelly marks, perfect manners etc. ride in the school in walk, there’s loads you can do. Get some professional help to get him trotting confidently, even if that’s just once a week for a few months, then you get trotting confidently. Forget canter for now if needs be.
If you buy a baby, you have to be prepared to spend money on their education. I have a four year old cob and I’m a lot more experience than you, but I’m paying my instructor to ride her twice a week at the moment, to really get the foundations in place.
Don’t sell him and give up, make it work. He sounds like a dude and hopefully will be perfect at some point.
I don't want to go over all that again it nearly broke me and sent my depression spiralling. Ozzy was a totally different horse to Charlie. I have bonded with Charlie. The advice I got was poor and I don't feel confident where I am for the help I need. He may be green but he has no badness in him and seems to have a old head on young shoulders in most respects. I just want to make the best of the situation I am in now and not look back.It is unfair to blame the riding school. They are a riding school and that does not mean that they should offer a service to ride livery horses. Holding an AI does not make an instructor a wealth of experience.
OP has already bought a horse unseen and had a bad experience. I fail to agree how it is the fault of the RS that OP has done the same thing again. OP was given a lot of advice on the previous thread, all of which strongly directed them away from purchasing in this manner.
Now it is a case of improving a, currently, risky situation for a very novice rider with limited time and exposure around horses, let alone young green horses.
I thought you asked if I knew anyone personally which I don't.
The only issue I have with this is that having arthritis if I don't ride regularly I sieze up sadly and then it's like starting all over again with the muscles.
It's a member on here. They are not a freelance instructor but someone experienced working with horses who has offered to ride him and give me her opinion on him for me and I am grateful for that. It might give me an idea of whether I should pursue putting anymore money into him.No, I said personally what I would do. How have you selected the freeleancer you're thinking of using? I would go from a recommendation from those on here as again, you don't have a lot of experience or help to then choose a suitable instructor.
And I would strongly recommend, as I've said a couple of times, to do some work off horse. I recommended Equimech on YouTube, I specialise in rider fit when fitting a saddle and she's great for helping riders improve their performance and abilities in the saddle. She has free content available. Someone mentioned someone else, there are a lot to choose from as it's a growing sector of the industry, some will be all talk, some will be great so again, select through a combination of what feels right to you but in the context of the experienced advice you are getting here. You can always come up with a short list and ask if anyone can rate any of them.
If you find me on Facebook, I use my real name (and make sure it's my current page not the old one I've lost access to) I share content from all sorts of people who might offer useful information for you.
I am paying 112.00 for full livery but if I move him to schooling livery I will have to pay the yard I at to keep the stable for me. Not a full livery price though.It’s rubbish you’ve been given such terrible advice but it’s done now.
Realistically I would budget £100 per week to train him as he will need someone competent to train him.
This maybe a rude question but how much is full livery these days ? It might not be much more to find a schooling livery that can do the work for you and you just enjoy little hacks and groundwork till he’s more established. The only issue with a green horse and green owner is that you will also have to put work in yourself and have regular lessons whilst he’s being brought on. He sounds a nice sort and I’m pleased you have bonded … I just wish he was a 16 year old schoolmaster whose happy to teach a novice.
I struggle with my balance as I’m hyper mobile but it really helps if you work on your fitness too , especially core strength, there’s plenty of YouTube videos you can do at home. Walking him out in hand is also good for both of your fitness and exposes him to the world.
This is not going to be a quick thing so you just need to commit to a plan and stick to it.
It's a member on here. They are not a freelance instructor but someone experienced working with horses who has offered to ride him and give me her opinion on him for me and I am grateful for that. It might give me an idea of whether I should pursue putting anymore money into him.
Why would you want to move him back to the riding school which has already failed you very badly.
They seem very experienced. I won't mention any names that's up to them of course.Good stuff, worth reading their other posts, whoever they are, so you get where they're coming from, and their level of experience (casting no aspersions!).
Excellent suggestion and look forward to OP's updates a bit further on when she lets us know how it is all going.OP's had some great advice, and some good contacts to investigate.
Can I suggest, at this point, that we now all wish her well and wait for an update in a couple of weeks time.