BayLady
Well-Known Member
.. I feel that if I could blindfold myself, take away my stirrups and just *feel* my way around a schooling session it would be a million times better.
I there anything that's stopping you from doing that? I appreciate it probably isn't high on your to do list if he's tense and rushing, but could you try just letting go of everything, give him the reins a bit and play around with your body? Close your eyes periodically if it helps.
I find with my boy, who is a bit of a stress head, that what I'm feeling and thinking is as important as what I'm actually doing. He doesn't hack well alone so I've been having lessons where my instructor walks behind me and advises me. The most useful thing she's taught me is that my attitude makes or breaks a ride. If I go out with anything other than a grin on my face, throwing my energy out through my chest, he naps, spins and loses his confidence. If I act full of energy and confidence, even if it is just an act, he follows suit and marches out, full of enthusiasm and confidence. I don't consciously ride any differently but it clearly feels different to him. Might it be worth a try playing around with something like that, instead of actively schooling him for a bit?
I there anything that's stopping you from doing that? I appreciate it probably isn't high on your to do list if he's tense and rushing, but could you try just letting go of everything, give him the reins a bit and play around with your body? Close your eyes periodically if it helps.
I find with my boy, who is a bit of a stress head, that what I'm feeling and thinking is as important as what I'm actually doing. He doesn't hack well alone so I've been having lessons where my instructor walks behind me and advises me. The most useful thing she's taught me is that my attitude makes or breaks a ride. If I go out with anything other than a grin on my face, throwing my energy out through my chest, he naps, spins and loses his confidence. If I act full of energy and confidence, even if it is just an act, he follows suit and marches out, full of enthusiasm and confidence. I don't consciously ride any differently but it clearly feels different to him. Might it be worth a try playing around with something like that, instead of actively schooling him for a bit?