Noodles_3
Well-Known Member
I can see it two ways...
Op I can see from your point of view that basically it is just a waste of time and you wanted a sharer to help you with your horse but now you will more than likely have to teach lessons and 'babysit'. Is it worth it?
Then on the other hand, I do feel for the girl. It's taken 6 months to get to this point and everyone has to start somewhere. She was probably quite competent riding at the riding school in her own little way (rightly or wrongly!) and now she has had to totally change her way of riding! I do think the poor thing has probably lost a lot of confidence, as other people have stated.
The good thing here is that she sounds very committed to your horse and if you can just spend a little time with her or advise her to have lessons on digby, then you've probably got yourself a good little sharer. She will get better with time, she just sounds ultimately like she's had a confidence knock. She needs praising and positive support.
However at the moment it's not safe she's riding this horse, especially if she's going to be unsupervised and if you haven't got time, maybe best to have words with her mother and tell her the truth.
Op I can see from your point of view that basically it is just a waste of time and you wanted a sharer to help you with your horse but now you will more than likely have to teach lessons and 'babysit'. Is it worth it?
Then on the other hand, I do feel for the girl. It's taken 6 months to get to this point and everyone has to start somewhere. She was probably quite competent riding at the riding school in her own little way (rightly or wrongly!) and now she has had to totally change her way of riding! I do think the poor thing has probably lost a lot of confidence, as other people have stated.
The good thing here is that she sounds very committed to your horse and if you can just spend a little time with her or advise her to have lessons on digby, then you've probably got yourself a good little sharer. She will get better with time, she just sounds ultimately like she's had a confidence knock. She needs praising and positive support.
However at the moment it's not safe she's riding this horse, especially if she's going to be unsupervised and if you haven't got time, maybe best to have words with her mother and tell her the truth.