Bmikesova44
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Hello everyone!
I used to ride somewhat regularly when I was a child, but never got to properly learn as my family could never afford it. A couple of months ago I finally got financially independent (I am 22) and decided to invest into horse riding again. I chose to take up mostly group classes in the (supposedly, based on reviews) best riding school in the city where I live. Well, so far I have been really enjoying riding again - however, my experience with the horses and training styles has not been that great.
After a month or lessons, I was confidently trotting and cantering on my own again, fairly balanced etc. However, that is only if I can get my school horses (I usually get one of 4 various horses) to even get into trot/canter. I got quite frustrated, so I did a lot of research into how to work with horses who have been dulled down and desensitised - not constricting their movement with my seat/knees, using consistent cues and so on. But it hasn’t helped much, since I only get to ride once a week and it’s various horses.
The last class that I had so far was truly frustrating - my cob felt like he was almost falling asleep and the instructor kept telling me to simply give him bigger kicks, that the horse would only work as hard as I would and that I should give him a kick every 4 steps in walk and every 2 in trot. So I tried to do that, but it was completely unhelpful. He only seemed to become a bit more forward when the instructor gave him a verbal cue of some sort. I left that lesson feeling very defeated.
Last weekend I went on a day ride with a friend and it was lovely. I had a very forward Highland pony who needed the smallest cues (which I had to get used to first) and to be honest, this was the first time I felt as though I could use my seat and legs to give effective cues.
I would appreciate any tips/advice on how to deal with the school horses. Many thanks!
I used to ride somewhat regularly when I was a child, but never got to properly learn as my family could never afford it. A couple of months ago I finally got financially independent (I am 22) and decided to invest into horse riding again. I chose to take up mostly group classes in the (supposedly, based on reviews) best riding school in the city where I live. Well, so far I have been really enjoying riding again - however, my experience with the horses and training styles has not been that great.
After a month or lessons, I was confidently trotting and cantering on my own again, fairly balanced etc. However, that is only if I can get my school horses (I usually get one of 4 various horses) to even get into trot/canter. I got quite frustrated, so I did a lot of research into how to work with horses who have been dulled down and desensitised - not constricting their movement with my seat/knees, using consistent cues and so on. But it hasn’t helped much, since I only get to ride once a week and it’s various horses.
The last class that I had so far was truly frustrating - my cob felt like he was almost falling asleep and the instructor kept telling me to simply give him bigger kicks, that the horse would only work as hard as I would and that I should give him a kick every 4 steps in walk and every 2 in trot. So I tried to do that, but it was completely unhelpful. He only seemed to become a bit more forward when the instructor gave him a verbal cue of some sort. I left that lesson feeling very defeated.
Last weekend I went on a day ride with a friend and it was lovely. I had a very forward Highland pony who needed the smallest cues (which I had to get used to first) and to be honest, this was the first time I felt as though I could use my seat and legs to give effective cues.
I would appreciate any tips/advice on how to deal with the school horses. Many thanks!