Update and a sad goodbye...

vam

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I used to post in here a lot but I am gutted to say that I had my beautiful boy pts last Friday. I'm not sure if anyone remembers him or me but he got kicked and fractured his knee back in August 13, at the beginning of 14 he suffered a setback which was damage to the lateral collateral ligament. At best we could hope was a happy hacker.
Anyway after nearly 18 months of trying it seems I just couldn't fix him. I bent over backwards for his quirks, my YO went above and beyond to help, my friends up that yard put up with his twit like behavior and supported me when the stress became too much.

He was an amazingly talented horse but there were lots of niggles both physically and management wise that meant that combined with the damage to his knee both me and my vet (plus pretty much everyone who knew him) felt that it was the best thing to say good bye. He really was a lovely boy and after my vet had a look in the knee after and saw what was going on I was pretty surprised he wasn't lamer or a right grump.
Everyone thought the world of him, he was a giant pain in the butt but he was my pain in the butt and you just couldn't help but smile round him. He had the most lovely out look on life, just wanting to please and be your friend.

I never wanted to see him struggling to walk or play or to go down and not get up. He lived for his work and just got more and more miserable. I know people will say that horses really don’t mind not being ridden but I think I might have had one of the few who really did. He would never let you know how bad it was until it was really, really bad, he was honest soul like that.
That above most else made me realise I wasn't going to ever let it get that bad so I said my goodbyes last week. It broke my heart but I don’t regret it. I’ll miss him but never be sorry for my choice nor all the blood, sweat and tears over the last 5 years. I’m thankful for everything he taught me both on the ground and in the saddle, intentionally or unintentionally.

Thanks for the ride dude.

When I first got him
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Early jumping him
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Fulfilled my ambition to ride on the beach
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More jumpies
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Firmly subscribing to ‘all the gear, no idea’
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Managing to pick up a rosette
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Being a dude
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Much needed lessons
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Proper show and everything
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Finally finding 6th gear
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Looking ridiculously shinny
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Snow fun
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Winning
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Apparently liking water
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Thinking he is a race horse
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Just looking good
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Being scopey
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Being Q
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Failing at trot poles, again
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Being handsome
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Channelling his inner racehorse
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Making me look good
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Being a dude again
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Channelling our matchy, matchy
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Think this just sums him up
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I'm horse hunting now but taking my time, I will be hard pushed to find another like him but I hope I can find one with the same sunny out look and lovely nature, some of his talent wouldn't go a miss either, I don't think I came close to tapping half of it. He has left big shoes to fill.
Thanks for reading
 
I'm so, so sorry . . . what a beautiful boy and what a lovely partnership you made. You made each other look good . . . great team, you should be very proud of what you accomplished together and the bond you forged.

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I'm sorry to hear your news. You obviously tried very hard to 'fix' him and then took the best decision for him - it's never easy. He was a fabulous looking horse.

Do keep us updated about your horse-search.
 
He was lucky to have been owned by you. You can see from his happy expression in all your photos he loved his work. Brave and right decision x
 
So sorry to read your update Vam. Beautiful photos and gorgeous horse. Brave decision. There is one out there who will find you.
 
Oh I have tears in my eyes. Poor you, he was so beautiful. Gah horses they are such heart breakers. I really do hope you find a special horse to replace him. I couldn't wait after my mare was pts either. The pain of missing my friend was unbearable and a new face to say hello to over the stable door helped. Good luck in your search.
 
Im sorry to hear of you loss, he looks such a lovely boy - i hope you find a lovely new friend, they will be lucky to have you!

take comfort in the knowledge that you did absolutely everything to keep him happy until his last moments xx
 
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