Oberon
Well-Known Member
I have considered the Police route but I'm of the impression that unless she's committed a criminal act - say assaulting me - that they wouldn't be able to get involved.
I've stored the abusive texts but unfortunately the phone calls weren't recorded. In the end I ignored them but she kept ringing from other phones and hiding her number. She's an absolute nightmare.
Its the worst time for it to happen as I'm alone during the day as I'm housebound after being thrown by my horse into a solid fence and broke my pelvis - I won't be up and about properly for weeks. I've never laid eyes on her but I she thinks she knows me and sends really personal (totally untrue) texts... Its bizarre I feel abused in my own home by her!
I would still like to discuss with a solicitor - can anyone recommend one? I think the BHS only give advice but can't actually act in any cases.
If she has made you feel fearful or harassed then she has broken the law.
It does not need to be a physical assault.
I have known people be arrested for telephone and online harassment.
The police can only get involved if you let them. Make a complaint and get some help.