Enfys
Well-Known Member
I always think of the 'what if's'. Having seen the aftermath of a yard friend going out for a canter on a hack, horse spooked, she came off, horse was loose and ran across a busy road and got taken out by a car doing 60mph. The canter was not worth the dead horse or the injured driver.
If we allowed the what ifs, the buts, and the maybes to rule our lives we would wrap ourselves in a bubble and board ourselves in our homes. Life is a risk, there are infinite variables, if people choose to minimise those risks then that's fine, how they choose to minimise them is a personal choice don't you think?
I saw a horse snap his leg when he was playing about in the paddock, perhaps that could have been prevented if we had never let him out. I have also seen a horse die from injuries caused by getting cast in a huge stable, maybe he'd have lived if we'd put him out in the field.
What I am getting at is that some risks are acceptable, some are downright stupid, but they are mainly of our own choosing.
I don't choose to ride my stallion off my own property, not because he is dangerous in anyway, or that I cannot handle him but because I am very aware that if I were to come off him and he got away, he could, by the very nature of him being entire, cause carnage, not to mention the obvious road hazard. To me, riding him out, alone, when I have others to ride is an unacceptable and foolhardy risk.
Don't even get me started on being a parent...you'll know just what I mean if you have your own children.
Every day when my daughter goes to school I have to take the risk that the bus won't crash, or she won't get into fights, or drugs, or abducted, or raped, or knocked over etc, etc,etc...I have to take those risks because I have to let her live her own life.
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