dozzie
Well-Known Member
I dont want to go into details but i have just had the vet out to my 32 yr old to test for liver failure. There are signs of LF. He has taken bloods and will get back to me asap.
Part of me wants it to be positive and I feel bad about that but i think it is because the decision will then be made for me. It will almost be a relief that he has gone...that i dont have that decision to go through in future. I know that if he doesnt gain weight I cant put him through another winter so may have to make a decision soon anyway.
The other part of me wants it to be treatable but then i will be worried about the winter again. If he picks up i will want to take him through another winter as i am not sure i will have the guts to pts.
Now this is going to sound even worse...I have had him for 30 years and i am just not sure i can keep going with him. It is so heartbreaking to see him underweight and even worse as he is now thin. He is the most difficult horse to manage weight wise as he just doesnt eat. It will almost be a relief.
I am basically trying to sort out in my own head why i am feeling like this as i do feel bad but my heart is saying one thing whilst my head is saying another.
Of course until the bloods come back no decision can be made and even if positive i will give him a chance. But I do feel bad feeling that it would be easier if this is the end.
Sorry if i am sounding a bit muddled!
Sad Dozziexxxx
Has anyone else felt like this?
Part of me wants it to be positive and I feel bad about that but i think it is because the decision will then be made for me. It will almost be a relief that he has gone...that i dont have that decision to go through in future. I know that if he doesnt gain weight I cant put him through another winter so may have to make a decision soon anyway.
The other part of me wants it to be treatable but then i will be worried about the winter again. If he picks up i will want to take him through another winter as i am not sure i will have the guts to pts.
Now this is going to sound even worse...I have had him for 30 years and i am just not sure i can keep going with him. It is so heartbreaking to see him underweight and even worse as he is now thin. He is the most difficult horse to manage weight wise as he just doesnt eat. It will almost be a relief.
I am basically trying to sort out in my own head why i am feeling like this as i do feel bad but my heart is saying one thing whilst my head is saying another.
Of course until the bloods come back no decision can be made and even if positive i will give him a chance. But I do feel bad feeling that it would be easier if this is the end.
Sorry if i am sounding a bit muddled!
Sad Dozziexxxx
Has anyone else felt like this?