alleycat
Well-Known Member
There's a horse within a couple of hours drive of me (not saying who) that I've watched out for for years; I've always meant to go & have a look at him. He's often advertised, but never very well; stunning photo but no conformation shot, no pictures of offspring, etc., although his offspring are said to be good. The stud is competent but low-key; perhaps they don't like too many outside mares, though the fact that they advertise at all does suggest that they aren't totally disinterested. They have gone to the trouble of setting up a website but it tells you nothing.
So, why don't I just go & see him?
Fact is I've come to dislike going to see stallions unless I'm already 90% sure I'm likely to use them. In the old days before cheap video & the web, when there were fewer opportunities for research, I would go to see three or four horses with the intention of using one; and every time the stallion owner was so enthusiastic about their horse - as indeed they should be- that I felt it hard to be critical or discuss any possible negative aspects of the proposed mating, and I felt a bit awkward if I found I didn't like this horse as much as the previous one.
However, viewing one stallion, I learnt that the previous viewer had made a 2 day trip of seeing around 20 stallions; she lived way out in the sticks and couldn't rely on seeing them at shows & stallion parades; but she was only going to use 1 or maybe 2 of them.
So how do you stallion owners feel about this? We mare owners are by necessity likely to be timewasters. Do you mind? Is it OK visiting stallions in the spirit of research- eg. I know I'm very unlikely to use my mystery stallion this year or next, but I may be interested in the future; do I go & see him anyway? How much time do you have to budget for time-wasting mare-owners; or do you find that this pays off in that they buy youngstock instead?
I like to take a little bit of video of any stallion I view, as I find it difficult to assess everything straightaway (I take my hat off here to judges and graders, who HAVE to do this) but given that (for all the stallion owner knows) I might post this or show it to friends, is this a reasonable request, as less-than-stunning video or still photos can have a negative effect on the stallions' image (perhaps he's in his winter woolies that day, for example).
So, why don't I just go & see him?
Fact is I've come to dislike going to see stallions unless I'm already 90% sure I'm likely to use them. In the old days before cheap video & the web, when there were fewer opportunities for research, I would go to see three or four horses with the intention of using one; and every time the stallion owner was so enthusiastic about their horse - as indeed they should be- that I felt it hard to be critical or discuss any possible negative aspects of the proposed mating, and I felt a bit awkward if I found I didn't like this horse as much as the previous one.
However, viewing one stallion, I learnt that the previous viewer had made a 2 day trip of seeing around 20 stallions; she lived way out in the sticks and couldn't rely on seeing them at shows & stallion parades; but she was only going to use 1 or maybe 2 of them.
So how do you stallion owners feel about this? We mare owners are by necessity likely to be timewasters. Do you mind? Is it OK visiting stallions in the spirit of research- eg. I know I'm very unlikely to use my mystery stallion this year or next, but I may be interested in the future; do I go & see him anyway? How much time do you have to budget for time-wasting mare-owners; or do you find that this pays off in that they buy youngstock instead?
I like to take a little bit of video of any stallion I view, as I find it difficult to assess everything straightaway (I take my hat off here to judges and graders, who HAVE to do this) but given that (for all the stallion owner knows) I might post this or show it to friends, is this a reasonable request, as less-than-stunning video or still photos can have a negative effect on the stallions' image (perhaps he's in his winter woolies that day, for example).