Vislak

Thanks for posting this. I was thinking about her yesterday and wondered how she was getting on. X
 
Hi guys, thanks for thinking of me. I havn't done an update because there isn't too much to report really.
I'm bearing up ok emotionally, practically I'm still in a bit of a struggle but am trying to stay positive and take baby steps with it all.
I am developing a business plan at the moment to keep me busy right now and hopefully eventually, self sufficient and working from home.
Thanks again all for being so supportive and helpful, it really has helped pick me up and feel a bit stronger. You guys are great :)
x
 
Vizslak said:
Hi guys, thanks for thinking of me. I havn't done an update because there isn't too much to report really.
I'm bearing up ok emotionally, practically I'm still in a bit of a struggle but am trying to stay positive and take baby steps with it all.
I am developing a business plan at the moment to keep me busy right now and hopefully eventually, self sufficient and working from home.
Thanks again all for being so supportive and helpful, it really has helped pick me up and feel a bit stronger. You guys are great :)
x
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Well done Vislack, keep going and and things might look a pale grey instead of black. I think pale grey is about as good as it gets! Chins up!
 
awesome, glad to hear you're ok. don't forget to shout if you want anyone to help with anything. I'm more than happy to cast an eye over a business plan even if my expertise only extends to spelling and grammar (which we know you're good at anyway!), or to check that stuff makes sense or whatever!
 
Thanks guys I will indeed keep kicking on.
Although I am having one of those days where everything is breaking! With the exception of baby horse who is looking quite fixed, I plucked up the courage to lunge him today so I can formulate a plan.
 
Well because it has taken me years to love this horse...and now I love him I REALLY love him, he's very special to me. When he was not on the road to recovery I could justify pts. Now it looks like I'm going to have to give him a fighting chance, get him well by spending the next 6 weeks working with him (and loving him more) just so I can get rid of him :(
 
Vizslak said:
Well because it has taken me years to love this horse...and now I love him I REALLY love him, he's very special to me. When he was not on the road to recovery I could justify pts. Now it looks like I'm going to have to give him a fighting chance, get him well by spending the next 6 weeks working with him (and loving him more) just so I can get rid of him :(
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Keep him, I have said this all along, dont knee jerk the situation. Someting ALWAYS comes along, I shouldknow as I have lived on the edge most of my life. You are fragile at the moment so dont make any decisions that compromise your horses! When all is said and done you have the right in your life to have something to fight for. Good luck and stay strong.
 
Hmmm, I don't think it's possible but we will see how things pan out. I have to put it to the back of my mind for a minute or it will be too painful to work him and get him well and thats not fair on him because he won't have a chance. I have put off working him all week for those reasons, every day I have gone to him telling myself I must get on with it and every day I have chickened out on it and just done the minimum possible with him. I forced myself today and will keep going now.
 
All you can do - all ANYONE can do, is take one day at a time. And today you and he took a step forward together.
 
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