Equilibrium Ireland
Well-Known Member
Take the breed away. What are you left with? Possible pain and or a horse and rider combo that doesn't gel, possibly. That DOES NOT mean this girl isn't a good rider at all.
Look I'm speaking as someone that used to gallop and been on over probably 3000 horses. At first you decide you will be the rider that will ride everything. You will show the world how good you are. Then you become wiser and realise you as a rider have many strengths. You also start to realise you have weaknesses. So you get to a point where you become a very good rider by concentrating on those strengths. It takes a long time of realising this. Lots and lots of self doubt along the way.
Why am I rambling? Because for this one horse your friend is having trouble with there are probably 10 horses she could ride better than someone else so she shouldn't feel bad. If she has her heart set on this mare then she should send her to a pro for at least 2 months in the spring after a break. Then revisit the situation and continue working with the mare. If still not working then selling her on is probably a good idea knowing she did her best.
Good luck,
Terri
Look I'm speaking as someone that used to gallop and been on over probably 3000 horses. At first you decide you will be the rider that will ride everything. You will show the world how good you are. Then you become wiser and realise you as a rider have many strengths. You also start to realise you have weaknesses. So you get to a point where you become a very good rider by concentrating on those strengths. It takes a long time of realising this. Lots and lots of self doubt along the way.
Why am I rambling? Because for this one horse your friend is having trouble with there are probably 10 horses she could ride better than someone else so she shouldn't feel bad. If she has her heart set on this mare then she should send her to a pro for at least 2 months in the spring after a break. Then revisit the situation and continue working with the mare. If still not working then selling her on is probably a good idea knowing she did her best.
Good luck,
Terri