NooNoo59
Well-Known Member
Its an expensive hobby and supposed to be fun, so whatever you want to do is fine, horse wont care as long as he is cared for, this woman does not sound that experienced to me if that's the way she thinks!
After 20 years+ of lessons/sharing other people's horses I finally have the time and money to buy a horse of my own! I am just looking for a happy hacker sort, I am quite short and light so thinking 14.2ish native/cobby type, maybe something older that needs a quieter life and would just enjoy hacking/beach rides/maybe the odd sponsored ride. I would be able to ride most days and there is no shortage of varied hacking where I would be keeping it.
I have a lot of experienced people to help me and a lovely yard to keep a new horse at, but a friend of a friend threw me a bit yesterday by saying she thought it would be unfair on a horse just to be hacked about and not to be competed or shown, and that I should stick to sharing if that is all I would be doing. She is a very experienced horsewoman so it has dampened my enthusiasm a bit, do you think it is enough for a horse to just be hacked about, or do you think they need to do more in life to be happy?
Aaaaand another who says she talking out of her green-tinted bottom![]()
After 20 years+ of lessons/sharing other people's horses I finally have the time and money to buy a horse of my own! I am just looking for a happy hacker sort, I am quite short and light so thinking 14.2ish native/cobby type, maybe something older that needs a quieter life and would just enjoy hacking/beach rides/maybe the odd sponsored ride. I would be able to ride most days and there is no shortage of varied hacking where I would be keeping it.
I have a lot of experienced people to help me and a lovely yard to keep a new horse at, but a friend of a friend threw me a bit yesterday by saying she thought it would be unfair on a horse just to be hacked about and not to be competed or shown, and that I should stick to sharing if that is all I would be doing. She is a very experienced horsewoman so it has dampened my enthusiasm a bit, do you think it is enough for a horse to just be hacked about, or do you think they need to do more in life to be happy?
There is nothing wrong with just wanting to hack.
However I also think it is wrong to sneer at people that want to go to competitions!
Oh good greif! (And for what its worth my beloved "Bob the nota cob" has asked for a transfer to your team)
Wow, thanks so much for all your replies! My old instructor knows of a pony for sale who sounds like he might be very suitable, so I'm hopefully going with her to see him sometime in the next week or so. I didn't mean to sound rude about those who compete, I think the lady in question has just been competing from a young age and is not very open-minded about those who haven't! Thanks so much again for all your kind words.
Your friend's friend is a moron - to put it politely. In this day & age, only the bravest & the best riders hack successfully. Duh, I hate people like that.