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BallyJ

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Hoping the collective mind of HHO will strike again! You guys are my go to for any problems 😂


I'm going to a traditional Indian Wedding at the beginning of Sept, I don't know the bride, but do know the groom! The invite is traditional Indian dress but I have no idea, and nobody to ask?! Really don't want to look like a plonker and REALLY REALLY don't want to offend anyone. My other option would be a Midi/Maxi dress so if you have any recommendations for these please let me know, ideally under £200?
 
I don't have much advice but I will say that there are often lots of fabulous Indian outfits on eBay, if you are open to secondhand items. I have been looking at secondhand wedding dresses on there and often stumble over Indian wedding guest outfits on there (and outfits for brides too of course). Just thought I'd mention it as you might be able to get some ideas on there at least.
 
Theres some beautiful ones on Vinted!

But i'm not sure if I should wear a lehenga or saree?

Any an colours to avoid? or is it a case of anything goes?
 
BallyJ said:
Theres some beautiful ones on Vinted!

But i'm not sure if I should wear a lehenga or saree?

Any an colours to avoid? or is it a case of anything goes?
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When I attended one a few years ago I was reliably informed that either lehenga or saree are fine and just avoid red (as is the bridal colour) and black (a lack of colour is not the done thing).

I bought off ebay and really enjoyed picking something that I would never usually get an opportunity to wear
 
DabDab said:
When I attended one a few years ago I was reliably informed that either lehenga or saree are fine and just avoid red (as is the bridal colour) and black (a lack of colour is not the done thing).

I bought off ebay and really enjoyed picking something that I would never usually get an opportunity to wear
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Perfect! I'm thinking Lehenga so sound like i'm along the right lines
 
My mum used to be invited to a lot of Indian weddings when she worked in Southall - she used to wear a salwar kameez as she wasn’t keen on having a bare midriff, but the lehengas are beautiful if you’re confident. Saris are tricky to get right if you’re not used to them. Whatever you wear you’ll want to be comfortable in it - Indian weddings tend to be marathons not sprints!
 
Muddy unicorn said:
My mum used to be invited to a lot of Indian weddings when she worked in Southall - she used to wear a salwar kameez as she wasn’t keen on having a bare midriff, but the lehengas are beautiful if you’re confident. Saris are tricky to get right if you’re not used to them. Whatever you wear you’ll want to be comfortable in it - Indian weddings tend to be marathons not sprints!
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Thank you!! Really looking forward to it!! 😁😁
 
I went with a jumpsuit to a similar wedding and felt comfy but still dressed up enough. Paired it with some chunky heels and a clutch to keep it simple.
 
Thank you for coming back to this thread! I should’ve updated myself and apologies for not! I went with a Lehenga and it was perfect! My husband wore a silk waistcoat and we received lots of compliments, both the bride and groom were grateful we’d made the effort. So thank you HH for the kick up the bum to go for it, will add a photo ☺️
 
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