noblesteed
Well-Known Member
2 years ago today I bought Mr Rude (not his real name!), my 11 yr old connie x iberian gelding. It was one of the most exciting days of my life, as I had never owned before, only loaned, and I had dreamed of owning a horse for 25 years. I have been reflecting on the impact he has had on my life, and what we have achieved together, and also NOT achieved! It has been very challenging as he hasn't been an easy horse. He has taught me SO much about horses, people and myself, and I thought it would be interesting to see what experiences others have had.
So here goes -
Never give up in something you believe in, but acknowledge when you need help.
Celebrate every achievement no matter how small.
Don't dwell on things that go wrong (very difficult!!!)
Nobody's horse is perfect, WHATEVER they tell you.
Some horses are just hard work while others aren't so difficult.
Your horse will NOT always do what you ask it even if you tell it several times.
Don't measure your own achievements by other people's.
You can't learn everything from a book.
Fear can be very debilitating.
If you don't face your fear head-on you won't conquer it.
People don't always tell you the truth, and may seem like they mean well but don't always. Choose friends wisely.
People can be incredibly kind.
Those who say the least generally know the most. Listen to them.
Trust your gut instinct upon meeting someone as it is generally correct.
Injuries generally heal in time.
Working owners do not have the same amount of time to spend with horses as those that don't work, so don't compare yourself to them.
Keep your mind open to new learning.
Most of your friends and family think you are mad!!!!
Patience, determination, self-belief, fear, humility, how to ride effectively.
My fiance tells me my horse and me are so similar in character, and that we were made for each other. This is despite me wanting to sell the horse at least once every 2 months.
SO how about you guys? What have you learned from your horse????
So here goes -
Never give up in something you believe in, but acknowledge when you need help.
Celebrate every achievement no matter how small.
Don't dwell on things that go wrong (very difficult!!!)
Nobody's horse is perfect, WHATEVER they tell you.
Some horses are just hard work while others aren't so difficult.
Your horse will NOT always do what you ask it even if you tell it several times.
Don't measure your own achievements by other people's.
You can't learn everything from a book.
Fear can be very debilitating.
If you don't face your fear head-on you won't conquer it.
People don't always tell you the truth, and may seem like they mean well but don't always. Choose friends wisely.
People can be incredibly kind.
Those who say the least generally know the most. Listen to them.
Trust your gut instinct upon meeting someone as it is generally correct.
Injuries generally heal in time.
Working owners do not have the same amount of time to spend with horses as those that don't work, so don't compare yourself to them.
Keep your mind open to new learning.
Most of your friends and family think you are mad!!!!
Patience, determination, self-belief, fear, humility, how to ride effectively.
My fiance tells me my horse and me are so similar in character, and that we were made for each other. This is despite me wanting to sell the horse at least once every 2 months.
SO how about you guys? What have you learned from your horse????
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