bex1984
Well-Known Member
I've got myself in a bit of a flap worrying about Murphy.
He has always been a bit lazy, and has always been a bit of a kick along pony, but when he puts the effort in and when I can motivate him, he really is brilliant - he jumps well, schools nicely.
This summer, however, things have gone a bit wrong. He is just so behind my leg and seems so uninterested, and all I seem to be doing is kicking and flapping and if I'm totally honest (and it really does upset me to admit this) I am not enjoying riding him much. When he has a good day he is fab, last week for example he got all excited because the kids at the yard were bombing around and we joined in and it was great. Sometimes I feel like he'd be happiest going on lots of long off road hacks - and I have no access to decent off road hacking, and very limited road hacking.
I do get so frustrated with him because he can just switch off completely and ignore me, and he is doing this a lot at the moment. I love him to bits and I don't want our ridden time together to be a battle. He literally just ignores me completely if he doesn't feel like doing something.
I just don't know what to do for the best. I just want him to be happy and us to both enjoy our rides, and I want to be able to do a variety of things (schooling, jumping, bit of hacking etc). Things are going to get more difficult in the winter too, when I only have the school to ride in in the dark after work.
So I'm wondering about whether I can change his management/feed? or anything else I can do?
any thoughts/ideas? I could really use some advice
sorry for the essay! I'm not explaining myself very well i don't think.
He has always been a bit lazy, and has always been a bit of a kick along pony, but when he puts the effort in and when I can motivate him, he really is brilliant - he jumps well, schools nicely.
This summer, however, things have gone a bit wrong. He is just so behind my leg and seems so uninterested, and all I seem to be doing is kicking and flapping and if I'm totally honest (and it really does upset me to admit this) I am not enjoying riding him much. When he has a good day he is fab, last week for example he got all excited because the kids at the yard were bombing around and we joined in and it was great. Sometimes I feel like he'd be happiest going on lots of long off road hacks - and I have no access to decent off road hacking, and very limited road hacking.
I do get so frustrated with him because he can just switch off completely and ignore me, and he is doing this a lot at the moment. I love him to bits and I don't want our ridden time together to be a battle. He literally just ignores me completely if he doesn't feel like doing something.
I just don't know what to do for the best. I just want him to be happy and us to both enjoy our rides, and I want to be able to do a variety of things (schooling, jumping, bit of hacking etc). Things are going to get more difficult in the winter too, when I only have the school to ride in in the dark after work.
So I'm wondering about whether I can change his management/feed? or anything else I can do?
any thoughts/ideas? I could really use some advice