JennBags
HHOSS Wonder Woman
Interesting how circumsatnces affect your opinion. I would always have said take time and care to desensitise the horse however I have been riding my friends mare who is incredibly whipshy and the only way to cope with her is no stick. So thats my vote she has panic attacks and there no real benefit in upsetting this little mare.
Voted for desensitising, but I agree with this - it really does depend on the horse, and whether you feel the absolute need to have a stick. I think if you're going to be jumping it esp XC, it's safer to be able to have a stick, but if your horse is very sensitive, you'd have to learn to use other aids.
I rarely carry a stick (except when jumping), both my horses can be nappy, but I don't feel the stick makes a lot of difference to either of them except to get them upset.