What to do ..

[Louisex]

i don't know what to do? i am currently loaning a horse that has been moved miles away and so i can only go down every so often (some else looks after her whilst i'm not there) and the people are riding her but yet i pay (well parents) for everything, livery to vet bills and she has shoes but i am debating weather to ask them to pay for them or half the cost?
we pritty much pay for her totaly but havn't paid for her? i love her to bits and don't know what to do if i didn't have her and i don't know weather i would want to get another one?
i just don't know what to do.. help me
sorry about the long story

 

[piebaldsparkle]

Think your being taken for a mug..........................That said I did spent 18months travelling from Surrey to the Isle of Wight so I could still share a horse (I know own her by the way). That said I wasn't paying all the bills (though I did obviously contribute). Would they consider selling??

 

[Louisex]

i don't know doubt it the thing is its like a 3rd loan, theres owner, owers friend then me, owner realy comes down and owners friend loaned her to me and owner now knows after a few months wich i thought was out but she seems fine with it

 

[Moggy in Manolos]

i dont think thats fair on you, i dont think they should haver moved the horsey being as you are loaning it and its now miles away
i would talk to them about it and see what can be done, good luck

 

[piebaldsparkle]

Well I think your only option is to discuss coming to a more reasonable arrangement (even if that means you lose her). You never know if they are relying on your parents to pay for her keep, they may not want her if they have to pay the bills themselves (potentially leaving the door open for you to loan her directly from the ponies owner).

 

[Louisex]

i had no choice, it was originaly a riding school and i was only paying £100 a month for everything and i had her 7 days a week but she was used in quite a few lessons and then they closed and and went miles away

 

[merlinsquest]

Are you still only paying £100 a month.... because if so, thats not a bad loan fee for 2/3 days a week let alone 7

As others have said though.... the only way to change things is to either talk to them, and if they so no to your proposals, then get another loan

I am sure that there are loads of people that would like another £100 in their pocket a month, and less chores

 

[Louisex]

nope i pay livery wich is £60 and on extra food shoes and everything

 

[merlinsquest]

Livery per month??? or per week??

 

[Louisex]

per month

 

[rosebud]

Hi
Im so sorry to hear of the problems you are havin atm,its so un-fair on you,you have done so much for rosie and you have brought her on lovely.keep your chin up and im sure things will work out. xx