pollymouse88
Active Member
So I have had my mare almost 6 months now and always going really well which included a win at a local show jumping. When I had her the vet checked her out flexion and everything and I said can I jump her and he said can't see why not just take it carefully (which I have done). But 6 weeks ago she went lame not sure how but came in from the field limping (making me think she did it there). She is now on and off lame on the left side both fore and hind. The vet has now said he would suggest we turn her in to a hacker and show pony which I agree with. I love this pony to death I get upset even when she walks in lame, she has taught me so much these last 6 months and I owe her everything as I am now back to riding the big boys with confidence even when they have their moments. Now here is my dilemma my other boy is 18hh he is only 6 and has plenty of learning room to jump etc but if I was to have a nasty fall off of him I am concerned my confidence would sky rocket downwards. I have always been a show jumper and I know he is too big to produce the times so looking to do either dressage, hunters or possibly eventing. I don't have the option to get rid of either of them and thats nothing to do with how much I love them but they both have reasons why I have them. So my dilemma is more of a what if I fall off the big one jumping and I don't have an alternative.
1) One shall I just see how it all pans out with him and then if I do fall off see how I feel? (the only thing that concerns me is that I will have nothing to regain my confidence with and will have to find something)
2) Shall I have a look for a third one thats smaller and more of a school master/mistress that can still jump but maybe not want to compete as much and sort of be my warm up for me and my 18hh.
Now I have written this all out it doesn't seem to be as much of a dilemma as it seemed in my head - it seems pathetic really. I think my major concern is loosing my confidence and not having her to bounce back up. I know I will still have her for hacking but that is all, I love this mare and i would do anything to make her life better. I have considered putting her out on loan etc but I love her too much couldn't bear to see her leave me and also her best friend will miss her too much I just can't separate them.
Round of appaulause if you got to the end of my not so much dilemma!
1) One shall I just see how it all pans out with him and then if I do fall off see how I feel? (the only thing that concerns me is that I will have nothing to regain my confidence with and will have to find something)
2) Shall I have a look for a third one thats smaller and more of a school master/mistress that can still jump but maybe not want to compete as much and sort of be my warm up for me and my 18hh.
Now I have written this all out it doesn't seem to be as much of a dilemma as it seemed in my head - it seems pathetic really. I think my major concern is loosing my confidence and not having her to bounce back up. I know I will still have her for hacking but that is all, I love this mare and i would do anything to make her life better. I have considered putting her out on loan etc but I love her too much couldn't bear to see her leave me and also her best friend will miss her too much I just can't separate them.
Round of appaulause if you got to the end of my not so much dilemma!