Impossibledecision
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Following on from my last post (where I got some excellent advice, helping me make the decision I need to make, and realising it’s the right one). I’ve been reflecting and trying to forgive myself. The whole time with my mare I’ve been thinking it’s me, I need to just get on with it, I need to be a better handler, this is horses, this is normal. I then spend time with other people’s horses and realise mine is quite extreme. She’s not my first horse. Whether a horse is ‘dangerous’ is rather subjective but what would you all class as ‘dangerous’? Here is some of the stuff my mare does/has done
Regularly rearing in hand without warning when spooked by something minor (proper upright rears, almost going over- has to be lead in a lunge line because of this)
Guarding other horses and chasing people trying to catch them, cantering behind people leading then turning and double barrelling towards them (too close)- she’s now on single turn out
Kicking and biting
Going into a blind panic on the lunge without warning- ie not just cantering and bucking like a fresh horse- but flat out canter, getting closer and closer on the circle (ignoring the whip at the shoulder), bucking, leaping, rearing, slipping and almost pulling herself over by turning too tight (she injured herself doing this one day)
Panicking when travelling, kicking the lorry, blind panic trying to get out :-(
Rearing and spinning and trying to canter up a main road when lead in hand because a dog walking past spooked her (again proper rears, not little bunny hops), not calming down after the dog had gone
Regularly rearing in hand without warning when spooked by something minor (proper upright rears, almost going over- has to be lead in a lunge line because of this)
Guarding other horses and chasing people trying to catch them, cantering behind people leading then turning and double barrelling towards them (too close)- she’s now on single turn out
Kicking and biting
Going into a blind panic on the lunge without warning- ie not just cantering and bucking like a fresh horse- but flat out canter, getting closer and closer on the circle (ignoring the whip at the shoulder), bucking, leaping, rearing, slipping and almost pulling herself over by turning too tight (she injured herself doing this one day)
Panicking when travelling, kicking the lorry, blind panic trying to get out :-(
Rearing and spinning and trying to canter up a main road when lead in hand because a dog walking past spooked her (again proper rears, not little bunny hops), not calming down after the dog had gone