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it was just a bit too good for your riding??

When I was a kid I did loads of BSJA and we ran a yard breaking and bringing on youngsers.

However now i'm 32 and anything over about 2'9" is frankly frightening
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yes I seem to have lost my bottle. Yet I know deep down that together we are capable of jumping newcomers and/or Novice BE.

I do loads of RC stuff and usually i'm happy jumping RC open SJ and XC. BUT I really want to register Bsja or BE I just need a kick up the backside.

Any advice, should I register and force myself as hoss was jumping NC as 6yr old.

Help I'm scared
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There's no rush; do what you feel you can handle. If you don't feel up to it this year then possibly aim for it next year? It's all about enjoyment.
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I would never jump out of my comfortzone, which after a season's teamchasing is kind of non existant, but then again I'm young and seem to bounce back. Dont force yourself to do anything you really dont want to, but by the sounds of things you really do want to have a crack at it. You dont need to jump in at the deep end, take him intro and see how you feel about that, you could always buy a couple of tickets and jump on those, see how you are liking it?
 
Don't push yourself into doing bigger things, if it doesn't seem the right time to do something give it longer which will build your confidence up do doing the bigger tracks
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I think i'm just annoyed with myself as I've done it before and I feel it's a shame for Boris who is a damn sharp jumper with a lemon on board
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Take your time. Set yourself realistic goals. Do what YOU want to do not what you think you OUGHT to do. As long as your horse is well cared for and stimulated I don't think he is going to care too much whether he is jumping smaller fences or bigger ones. You need to do what is right for both of you.
 
I think we all tend to put so many expectations and worries on ourselves. Realistically I don't think most of the time the horses are that worried about it! My horse needs a fair bit of exercise, he likes doing things. I am sure in different hands he could have had a much more competitive life. However due to various restrictions I just enjoy what I can do with him, and he seems happy enough.
 
You're right but I'm just one of those people who knows they're chickening out. When I do grit my teeth and go for it I feel great but then I'll 'miss' coming into a fence, have a wobble and it's all gone to rat sh*t and we're back to 2'9".

I know I can do it and people who see us in action know we can It's just all in m y head
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....So it sounds like you do actually really WANT to move up the levels ..... I think that is different to thinking you OUGHT to for the horse's sake.....
If you actually really want to do this for yourself then I really think some NLP or sports psychology would help. That and working up gradually to realistic targets, so you don't overface yourself and then take a step backward.....
I think you need a really good, sympathetic, experienced instructor to help you. It will take time and repitition to feel comfortable.
 
Remember you have your horse to have fun and enjoy. Just because it can do it, doesn't mean you should.

Just do what you want to do. Don't be forced by the tyranny of 'shoulds'!
 
hey their im the same i had young horses whom i would break and sell on im now 34 and even more of a wus than a new rider...lol i feel confident until i see a fence...i believe you can do confidence and self asertion courses to let you logically combat any issues you have....
 
Yeah that and rescue remedy!!

Thank you all for your advice.

Will start off slowly and get myself onto a competitive yard me thinks. Lots of like minded people to urge me on!
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If you're happy and your horse is happy, who cares if you're jumping 2'6 or 4'6 ? Presumably this is your hobby ?? If so, you're supposed to enjoy it. Over time, most of us (unless competing / jumping very regularly) lose a certain amount of bravery - as self preservation kicks in !!
 
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