HotToTrot
Well-Known Member
It's about what you can cope with and what you're happy with. Also what are you going to get out of it? I was ready to "upgrade" to a better horse that I could event at a higher level, but I couldn't afford one. Then one came along, with the talent and at the right price, but with a problem - she reared. I was confident I could cope with that particular problem but it was a risk - if I hadn't coped I would have wasted a lot of money as I would have had an unrideable (albeit talented) horse! And I would have kicked myself for selling on my safe, reliable (but intro/pre-novice) horse.
Admittedly I had some pretty teary moments and some soul-searching conversations when she first arrived, rearing left right and centre, and I wondered if I would crack it... But I have (I think -touch wood!!) and she is fab.
I think you need to see progress. If you feel over a long period of time that you're not getting anywhere then maybe you need a rethink. Unfortunately though, horses are so rarely perfect! You will almost always need to compromise on something, just try and pick the best compromise that works for you.
Admittedly I had some pretty teary moments and some soul-searching conversations when she first arrived, rearing left right and centre, and I wondered if I would crack it... But I have (I think -touch wood!!) and she is fab.
I think you need to see progress. If you feel over a long period of time that you're not getting anywhere then maybe you need a rethink. Unfortunately though, horses are so rarely perfect! You will almost always need to compromise on something, just try and pick the best compromise that works for you.