What's with the breed of horsey people that...

If you are organised and a disorganised person randomly disorganises your previously organised environment and tools, including relocating them to totally illogical places, it can cause involuntary snappiness.

Someone once borrowed my wheelbarrow, without asking, and returned it explaining that it was useless because half way through the job it had developed a flat tyre and could I fix it because they were running late. I too was running late, had spent half an hour looking for it.

Whilst rudeness is never a good solution, the misappropriation of tools resulting in endless hours hunting for previously easy to locate and in working order tools, is, in my opinion, a snapable offense.
 
One of th reasons I left my old yard was that i was getting royally p!ssed off that my stuff was getting "borrowed" all of the time.

I lost numerous head collars, and had others completely destroyed as my old box was near the farrier stand, so the farriers would just come and pick up the first h/c they saw, and never say anthing if the horse they tied up pulled back and knackered the h/c.

I was most unhappy when a brand new Masta cooler went walkabout as with a nearly new Professionals Choice dressage girth (two extremely stupid things to "borrow" as both brands are not readily available in France and have to be imported) but I never saw hide nor hair of them again.

I'm on a smallish yard now, and although I'm on full livery, I have bout various tools, but I don't mind other poeple using them - though it would be a different matter if I was on a DIY yard, and everyone was expected to have thier own equipment.
 
It can be a real pain when this happens, one of our horses was at a livery yard and the yard staff used to use our barrow and tools everyday to muck out other liveries horses, It drove me crazy everytime I got there I had to search for our stuff, all our haynets got mixed up and we would end up with broken old ones so I know how you feel, our horse got turned out in her stable quilt a few times, busy body livery thinking he was helping them used to chuck all the horses out in the mornings, he obviously didnt think about looking at what they had on.
 
No. No. No
I hate anyone using my stuff. I had someone borrow my girth, stirrup leathers and irons while someone tried their horse, then sold the lot with the horse.
The same person used my grooming kit as and when she felt like until I went ballistic. Funny enough she never touched my things again.
I also had someone use my feed for her 5 horses for a week and her friend calmly informed me "she said its ok, you don't mind". She found that I did mind.
I now run a small yard and we all get on really well together and are happy to help each other.
 
it annoys me too I know they are 'only' tools but I see it as things I've worked hard to pay for :) If people ask thats fine but at my old yard a new girl was continually using my things (everyone had their own space outside their stable for muck out kit/grooming kit etc) and there was also a whole heap of communal tools at the barn entrance but she insisted in using my stuff and leaving it dirty with poo and straw in the fork and brush etc. Politely reminded her where the communal stuff was and added that if she wanted to use mine then asking first and cleaning afterwards was a sign of basic good manners..
 
Whilst the OP might have been overly rude (and we dn't know, we weren't there), I agree entirely with her about taking other people's stuff - and especially about not returning it or leaving it broken/dirty.
 
To all the people saying that why shouldn't people borrow stuff you have clearly not had the bills that some have for broken stuff. In the past year I have had to pay for a new tyre on my big wheelbarrow (£38) because everyone borrows it when I'm not looking as you can get far more poo / straw bales etc in it and therefore extra wear and tear on tyres. £30 for new shavings fork because someone borrowed it to poo pick and got excited! £20 repair to one side rein because someone borrowed it and the pony snapped it. £12 repair to Pessoa lunging thing because someone borrowed it and let the horse catch it on the corner of the gate. £25 on endless new buckets because everyone borrows them for washing and lets the horses knock them over and smash them. The list goes on and on. I used to be very accommodating letting people borrow things, offering them even but not once when they have got broken has anyone offered to pay to replace them.
 
I was looking around at my feed merchants the other day and I saw a great little thing. It was a little metal 'box' safe for tools, which you bolt to a wall, it's open at the top and the bottom and has a lockable door on the front, so you opened the door and put your tool handles inside it then locked the door, so your tools would stay where you left them. I thought I'm having one of those if I ever have to go back to a communal yard!
 
A yard I was on someone borrowed my fairly new Albion jumping saddle complete with brand new sprengers without asking. Turned up and they were happily trotting round the school using it.

God !! I wouldn't even THINK of helping myself to anyones tack and I'd be absolutely bouncing if someone used mine!!!!!
 
I hate people borrowing my stuff.
About 6 years ago i was on a DIY yard was absolutely brill there, couldn't afford my own tools then so went poo picking in the field with rubber gloves and a 'yard' wheelbarrow! Stabling was fine there we got to borrow the yard tools as many others did although our horse was very difficult and a bit special.. Nothing got stolen or borrowed and this lovely lady used to let us borrow her Chifney take take him to and from the field all the time. Was always returned washed and in same condition as before. Only problem about this yard was the bitching as we were classed as the 'lower class' people so was one of the main people to get bitched about. Only stayed there for a 1 year.

Next yard was Grass Livery. Lovely yard, still work there (As it's a riding school, competition yard and livery/DIY place) No need for your own tools as they had about 20 of everything, only problem was because it was a riding school they had the 'main' tackroom for r/s tack. the 'Livery's' tackroom and the 'Comp Yard' tack room. We once came there one day to find our girth had been put on one of the r/s horses! Was clearly on our saddle though as was under a saddle cover with my horse's name on it :/
 
£30 for new shavings fork because someone borrowed it to poo pick and got excited!

Sorry - just popped on for a quick nosey and that comment made me snort coffee everywhere!! What were they doing???!!! lol.

(I agree that people shouldn't borrow stuff without asking and taking stuff and not giving it back is stealing and therefore a criminal offence).
 
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