n.equine
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One persons problem horse is anothers dream horse!!
One persons problem horse is anothers dream horse!!
I see the post has been deleted, but the horse concerned was an ex point to pointer which has bucked off and seriously hurt someone when the girth was done up, along other serious behaviour issues, hence my advice that it is unsuitable as a first horse.
Thank you. I agree it’s just hard to let go when you get attached to them but I’ve realised it’s not what I want. Thank youA “problem” horse coupled with someone not equipped with the skills to turn them around (ie not a pro or someone with access to loads of help) will not only take all your spare cash trying to problem solve, it will take every last bit of sanity you have and possibly all your confidence.
you want to have fun and get out there enjoying things with your horse, there is no shame in saying no.
Thank you. I agree it’s just hard to let go when you get attached to them but I’ve realised it’s not what I want. Thank you
Thank you. I agree it’s just hard to let go when you get attached to them but I’ve realised it’s not what I want. Thank you
I do ? a bit when I see social media stuff about all you have to do is "believe" and problem/dangerous horses will become dream horses of a lifetime. I don't doubt horses can be turned around
Thank you. I agree it’s just hard to let go when you get attached to them but I’ve realised it’s not what I want. Thank you
And if you love them enough all will be fine.
Indeedy. I don't doubt the love is a good thing but also...the knowledge/experience/cash!
I think also, people inexperienced with horses see Monty Roberts, or the like, miraculously changing a horse/fixing it and do not understand the depth of knowledge,confidence and experience that lies beneath the surface of the "fixer".
A “problem” horse coupled with someone not equipped with the skills to turn them around (ie not a pro or someone with access to loads of help) will not only take all your spare cash trying to problem solve, it will take every last bit of sanity you have and possibly all your confidence.
you want to have fun and get out there enjoying things with your horse, there is no shame in saying no.
I think also, people inexperienced with horses see Monty Roberts, or the like, miraculously changing a horse/fixing it and do not understand the depth of knowledge,confidence and experience that lies beneath the surface of the "fixer".