When To PTS?

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I have a 10 year old bichon fries who I rehomed as a 3 1/2 year old. Initially, she was a very nervous little thing but very soon became the most perfect little companion.

A few years ago she was diagnosed with an auto immune disorder which makes her immune system attack her paw pads, causing ulcerated patches, bleeding and generally awful looking paws, she also had lumps appear on her gums.

Originally vets were baffled and tried every type of steroid under the sun but these just made her unwell. She was then referred to a specialist who made a stab in the dark and said sometimes an antibiotic and vitamin B supplement cure this type of illness but they don't know why. After 6 months on this medication the illness went away for approximately 18 months. She was however, left with slipping knee caps and stretched ligaments in her legs which meant that she would walk and come to the stables with me but she would have to keep sitting down to rest.

Unfortunately for the last 8 weeks the illness is back, it has attacked her paws again but this time the medication is not working as well. She is gaining weight where she isn't moving around and is sleeping a lot. I love this little dog to pieces, she has a beautiful nature and everyone who knows her loves her...but I do not want her to suffer. I struggle with the fact that in her little face, she's still young and wants to do all the things she has always done and desperately wants to keep up and looks happy, but physically her body is letting her down and now the paw thing has returned there is no saying how long it will stay or if it will go at all. I'm scared of letting her go on too long and being forced to put her down when she really is unhappy.

How do you know when is the right time to PTS? One person asked if she can eat, drink, go to the toilet.. she can do all of these, but laying around with sore feet and dodgy legs is not much of a life is it? Any help much appreciated.
 
In the case of your poor little dog, my answer would be 'Now'. With no real hope of recovery from any chronic health problem, we should put the well being of the animal before our own sense of loss. I realise that it isn't the answer that you'd hope for, but it's the best advice that I can give.

Alec.
 
In the case of your poor little dog, my answer would be 'Now'. With no real hope of recovery from any chronic health problem, we should put the well being of the animal before our own sense of loss. I realise that it isn't the answer that you'd hope for, but it's the best advice that I can give.

Alec.

agree
 
To be honest, it's reassurance that putting to sleep is the tight decision, I think in my heart the decision is already made, I just want to know that others would do the same.
Thank you all for your replies.
 
Its about quality if life and she doesnt have that poor little mite, if she was mine I would make an appointment for the vet to come to the house and I would give her whatever she loves to eat, in short I would spoil her rotten. You are making the right decision heartbreaking as it is, hugs to you and your little dog.
 
I read the title and without even knowing the circumstances thought to myself 'if you are asking the question, the answer is likely to be now' - you have done your absolute best for her and have given her 6 1/2 lovely years, I'm very sorry the time has now come, hugs to you both xx
 
I am so sorry you find yourself having to consider this sad moment, but from what you have said, it sounds like now is the time.
I had to make the same decision just over a week ago - my Doberman was realy struggling with arthritis, and then her back end started to give way. She gave me the look, and I knew she had had enough, so she passed with cuddles and dignity.

My heart really goes out to you. Xx
 
…….. - my Doberman was realy struggling with arthritis, and then her back end started to give way. She gave me the look, and I knew she had had enough, …….. Xx

I should have added and Sprout's post has prompted me, that we have to also consider the dog's level of dignity and the animal's self respect, and it comes under the heading of Animal Rights, for me.

Now I'm really not one for anthropomorphising, but when we see dogs which are crippled or, just as bad that they've lost their ability to control their bowels or bladders, the look of disgrace on their faces must soften the hardest heart. When this happens, then we should have performed the final kindness yesterday.

I know this doesn't apply to you OP, I'm just reinforcing that without a quality of life, you are making the right moral and ethical decision, and at times such as this, the Animal's Rights come before ours. Well done you, you have my respect and my sympathy, too.

Alec.
 
To be honest, it's reassurance that putting to sleep is the tight decision, I think in my heart the decision is already made, I just want to know that others would do the same.
Thank you all for your replies.

So sorry, but the decision you have already made would also be mine.
 
Alec, I so agree with you. Many years ago I had a 13 1/2 year old lab bitch who lost control of her bowels. Poo just fell out without her realising until after the event, she was so mortified (always a clean girl). that was when i decided the time was right. A bit pottery all round but to all intents and purposes leading a good life. Broke my heart but the look on her face when she had realised what she had done, bless her. I think of her to this day and occasionally call my present yellow lab her name, maybe that is my old age kicking in!

Sorry to hi jack your post
 
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Sorry to hear this GB. I always feel that once I have started thinking about the decision, then I know it is time. Maybe not right away but very soon. You know deep down it's only heading in one direction, and I agree with all the comments above. My thoughts are with you x
 
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