Casey76
Well-Known Member
Never where I think they are!
I have an awful habit of riding with my hands too low.
Me on my youngster:
I have an awful habit of riding with my hands too low.
Me on my youngster:

Try carrying a short whip horizontally, tucked under the joint of both thumbs. It makes you very aware of when a hand wobbles.
On the ends of my arms...![]()
I plead old age and a head cold.
On the ends of my arms...![]()
I plead old age and a head cold.
Your elbows should be a right angle!I hate hate hate pics of people with hands glued to the saddle pulling the horses head in !
Your hands, wrist and elbow have a huge impact on the contact... or more accurately the way you use the rein and the bit. So many people pull back and end up with dire crotch or knee hands.
As cortez states... straight line along rein. As casey (and red1) demonstrates on a young horse.
A lot of people carry tension in their arms, wrists and hands and this tension is carried down the rein to the horses mouth. A few photos on this thread show tense wrists. Try now... turn your wrists up to the sky (veins up) and bend your fingers and take an imaginary half halt, then turn your wrists over (back of hand up) and do the same. See how much stronger you are?
Also pulling a hand back does not create (Correct) flexion, you are better to turn the wrist over... palms to the sky and move the rein out (not back!!!) to ask for flexion. When you take that pull back you inadvertently prevent the hind leg from coming through as essentially you are 'breaking' one side of the horse.
You can also at your keyboards imaging holding a pair of reins in your hands and sticking your elbows in and out and feel which would create the most tension down the reins. Also try purposely bending your elbows.... and then just letting your upper arm fall softly down with a relaxed soft bed in the elbow.
A lot of people need to try it on their horse and watch and feel their flash nosebands become an unnecessary accessory!
Which ones are mine?
Do you mind a bit of CC?
IMO your hands and wrists are fine. I would however like to see you roll your shoulders back and open your chest allowing your neck to come to the back of your collar (imagine you are wearing a shirt). Then aim to let your upper arm hand down so you can imagine your elbows fall closer to your hips.
Ahh right, that would explain the tension in your shoulders as the rest of your position is good and your hands look 'soft' in the pictures which is why the horses look to being going well without resistance![]()