eventergirl87
Well-Known Member
We'll call the Friend A and the horse B.
B was being given away "free to a good home" by friends of mine and A was looking for a young project. Because A hadn't got any stabling arranged, and B needed to be re homed as soon as possible. A not wanting to miss the opportunity, I offered to have B on full livery for an undecided period of time. B was kept on full livery with us for 5 weeks. This included turn out, poo picking, mucking out, feed, hay and the beginning of his education (B was not backed and had only ever done the very basics).
Once A had sorted out livery for B I drove B to the new yard which was quite some drive (having already picked up horse from old home to bring to mine). Naively the cost of us keeping him on full livery and delivery was all done verbally, with no written contract between us. It was meant to be an agreement amongst friends which has now gone wrong. I do however have email proof of some of the exchanges between us and agreements and other witnesses that can back up this arrangement. Including speaking to yard girls at the yard which I dropped him to.
Weeks after delivering B to A she has been un-forthcoming with any degree of contact. Whilst I've accepted she has had difficulties in communication it has now been a long period of time. We are still waiting to receive the money A owes us.
The verbal agreement was that if she couldn't find livery for B then I would keep him. Having originally wanted him anyway, but A getting in before me. Through some form of sleuthing I have now found out that A has sold B. A has discovered that I have been sleuthing and has made minor contact, insisting that she bank transferred the money she owed to us. She is unwilling to provide any proof of statements that the money has been transferred, merely claiming in an email that "is has left my account". She is also refusing to tell me where B has been sold too. Claiming she "forgot" to offer him to us before advertising and selling him.
So my question is, Where do I stand?? We are now £X out of pocket, and the horse we were attempting to track down and reclaim to recuperate costs has been sold to new owners. Is there an organisation or a body I can contact? Is this a small claims court or solicitors route? (Not a route I would like to go down for fear of the financial implications for myself) or do I have to glumly face that we've been duped, and cut our losses?
Moral of the story - always retain hold of the passport ..... or perhaps just never be trusting of "friends"
B was being given away "free to a good home" by friends of mine and A was looking for a young project. Because A hadn't got any stabling arranged, and B needed to be re homed as soon as possible. A not wanting to miss the opportunity, I offered to have B on full livery for an undecided period of time. B was kept on full livery with us for 5 weeks. This included turn out, poo picking, mucking out, feed, hay and the beginning of his education (B was not backed and had only ever done the very basics).
Once A had sorted out livery for B I drove B to the new yard which was quite some drive (having already picked up horse from old home to bring to mine). Naively the cost of us keeping him on full livery and delivery was all done verbally, with no written contract between us. It was meant to be an agreement amongst friends which has now gone wrong. I do however have email proof of some of the exchanges between us and agreements and other witnesses that can back up this arrangement. Including speaking to yard girls at the yard which I dropped him to.
Weeks after delivering B to A she has been un-forthcoming with any degree of contact. Whilst I've accepted she has had difficulties in communication it has now been a long period of time. We are still waiting to receive the money A owes us.
The verbal agreement was that if she couldn't find livery for B then I would keep him. Having originally wanted him anyway, but A getting in before me. Through some form of sleuthing I have now found out that A has sold B. A has discovered that I have been sleuthing and has made minor contact, insisting that she bank transferred the money she owed to us. She is unwilling to provide any proof of statements that the money has been transferred, merely claiming in an email that "is has left my account". She is also refusing to tell me where B has been sold too. Claiming she "forgot" to offer him to us before advertising and selling him.
So my question is, Where do I stand?? We are now £X out of pocket, and the horse we were attempting to track down and reclaim to recuperate costs has been sold to new owners. Is there an organisation or a body I can contact? Is this a small claims court or solicitors route? (Not a route I would like to go down for fear of the financial implications for myself) or do I have to glumly face that we've been duped, and cut our losses?
Moral of the story - always retain hold of the passport ..... or perhaps just never be trusting of "friends"