Sugar_and_Spice
Well-Known Member
Why is everyone so convinced that no one is able to care for their horses as well as they can? There are many, many very decent people out there who enjoy breaking and schooling, or a project. Whether they make money or not, its very unlikely to be much. As Arianhod is unable/unwilling to break and ride the pony, it makes sense to sell to someone who can. The pony is far more likely to find a happy home then.
because I've seen the people on livery yards who have bought these sat-on-a-few-times-hacked-a-bit-and-sold-as-broken horses and I've seen what happens to them. The person who sold the horse to them is sometimes capable, sometimes not. The issue isn't "nobody else *can* take care of my horse properly", the issue is whether somebody *will bother* taking care of a horse properly, including it's long term best interests. IME a lot won't, especially if they've bought to sell on, only intending to put 3-4mths work in over the summer and ensuring it's gone by winter and made them a profit. I see it a lot. I'm not saying there aren't good people out there, but you only meet a potential buyer for a short period of time, it's easy enough for them to put on an act/tell you what they think you want to hear. It's not like you can tell the best people just from looking at them.
Arianrhod says it's not about the money, so the best thing for the horse is to send away for breaking properly, find/pay someone to get the horse riding away nicely, then sell (probably at an overall loss, but at least the horse has the best chance of finding a good and long term home).
10 is young-ish in general terms (nobody would actually describe a 10yr old as a youngster), but it's "old" when it comes to breaking in. The issue with whether someone has/hasn't tried to break in before and failed, is that the potential purchaser only has the sellers word for it that nobody has tried before. So with the best people probably reluctant to risk it, that leaves the less competent (who haven't considered the possibility and might not have the skills for a difficult horse) and the uncaring (who will happily lie through their teeth to get rid if they can't cope, with no thought to what happens to the horse after it leaves them). I've lost count of the number of horses bought by well meaning people who fancied a bit of a project over summer who, through lack of time or skill, have ended up selling on again as only partially handled/broken and what if the next owner does the same? And the next? Even if all those owners are well meaning and the horses aren't bashed about in these cases, they're still being passed on so often that IMO it's not fair on them.