splashgirl45
Lurcher lover
i have been skint for the whole of my life because of horses. i maxed credit cards and had many sleepless nights worrying about money. my relationship of 14 years broke down mainly because i put the horse first....i had to give up in 2018 because i am pretty old and retired and couldnt manage diy any more as it was physically too much for me. i am like a ship without a rudder as my whole life has revolved around horses and i really miss them but have now finally managed to afford to install central heating in my cottage. as you have only just taken out a mortgage i would do as others have said and try and save £400 per month as a minimum and do this for a couple of years to build up the capital to buy the horse and to have a cushion in case of problems... your relationship needs to be strong for your partner to put up with hardly seeing you. i wish you luck