why am i apologising so much on here now?

babymare

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ok tonight i answered a few posts ( apologies for the lonnng ones) but found i was apologising if offended anyone, explaining myself to extreme, saying not critiisim of any one. so ok 18 months or so ago i could come on here say what i thought and it was fun people did disagree but was in nice way - Now i feel i have to watch my back all time - anyone else feel like that as ummm i thought owning and loving your horses was fun - bit disheartened at mo on here ! but hey apologies it may just be me lol x
 
Just say it how you need to, if someone is offended they'l have forgotton by tomorrow.
Don't worry about it! :)
 
This a forum, people are meant to have different opinions. The world would be a very boring place if we all thought the same.
As long as you explain yourself in a polite way and you are not personally offensive to anyone you have no reason to apologise :).
 
There are a few select people that no matter what is written will be contrary and inflammatory, I think this is why a few ppl hae become very defensive! But as everyone else said nothing wrong with having an opinion, its the way you state it, I for one don't mind what I say, but try to come across as nice, not judgemental and aggressive!

Don't worry about it xx
 
Why worry? It is a forum not RL, the people posting are not what you would call friends (unless you chat to them privately etc) so just post away and those interested will read and appreciate your posts and those not .. well who cares lol
 
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