Sheelaghxx
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I really am desperate for some advice. I have had my lovely coloured mare, Daisy for 3 years now, and I feel like I have still not bonded with her at all. At best she tolerates me, and at worst she is grumpy and ears back at me. She is the first horse I have ever owned although I have ridden on and off all my life since I was 5. However I have found it to be a steep learning curve, as ridding other peoples horses and keeping one of your own, are two very different things. I am in my late forties and not a very forceful person, and have been told that she is not bonding with me as she doesn't see me as being dominant and is therefore not respecting me on the ground. I have had a friend and horse expert helping me with this, but as I work full time I am not probably putting in as much time as I need to. Does anyone think that maybe trying a "join up" session with her would help, and does it have to be in a round pen or would an indoor arena do. Any advice would be gratefully received as I am feeling quite depressed about it all!