Copperpot
Well-Known Member
I know exactly what he eats and how much as I specify it. I know exactly what work he does as again I specify it. I don't think that me not seeing a bump on his leg undermines our bond. I don't notice any difference from when he was DIY other than I am not stressed about what time I can be at the yard, will I have time to ride etc etc.
He knows my voice, he comes to see me in the field and follows me about the same as he always did. I would not dream of saying someone who is DIY and has little time to spend riding and pampering etc shouldn't have a horse. If the horse is happy and so are they who cares.
I think some people are confusing having a bond with their horse as cleaning out a stable whilst said horse is in the field. Or getting whinnied at cos they know you equal dinner time.
My horse is incredibly cuddly and fussy with me. I'm not a stranger to him.
He knows my voice, he comes to see me in the field and follows me about the same as he always did. I would not dream of saying someone who is DIY and has little time to spend riding and pampering etc shouldn't have a horse. If the horse is happy and so are they who cares.
I think some people are confusing having a bond with their horse as cleaning out a stable whilst said horse is in the field. Or getting whinnied at cos they know you equal dinner time.
My horse is incredibly cuddly and fussy with me. I'm not a stranger to him.