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Exactly! We found Jerrygreen were much more sensible than other rescues we had approached.But then if you are retired, you are too old![]()
Exactly! We found Jerrygreen were much more sensible than other rescues we had approached.But then if you are retired, you are too old![]()
We are mostly retired. What little work we do is mostly from home. Nobody stays at home 24/7 do they? A dog has to accept being left from time to time (once trained and accustomed to do so), sometimes for 4 hours if you go out for the evening. It's a dog, not a child. What the rescues are looking for is very difficult to find and life doesn't work like that. To my mind, the situation with rescues is a little crazy. Their restrictions create a set of criteria that few people can meet so dogs stay in rescue for a long time (hence very full, as we constantly read) when they could be rehomed to loving families who would do their best by them.
I was mostly on the cat and horse rehoming side of things but did see a little bit of dog rehoming when I was working at a rescue. The volume of emails, FB comments was incredible, even for small, regional place and sifting was a huge job. I am not saying this is you OP and probably not any posters here tbh but the number of people who send an application and expect to just be handed the dog they liked the picture of is bonkers. There is no patience and so much entitlement. You take a few days to respond and they already have a cavapoo puppy from their neighbours cousin. People lie on forms, say they will do the training then never turn up, say they will have the dog neutered and don't, say there are no small children in the house then return the dog for growling at their nephew, have the dog for one night then return them for barking their first night home locked in the kitchen, you ask for an update and the dog has been sold or given away and god knows where they are etc etc etc. The policies are in place to cope with the lowest common denominator unfortunately, and yes some great homes lose out because of it. But you wouldn't believe people are as stupid as they are until you see it yourself (or see it in the inbox, as was my route to it) and every "silly" rule is there because one, or several idiots, made the rule necessary.Dog may appear on the internet for a variety of reasons but they rarely go to the first person who offers them a home. Our object is to find the most suitable ‘match’ where everyone will be happy so it may take several weeks and a couple of visits meet and greets before everything is completed.
Do you know what, when I worked in a city I used to walk past a homeless man and his little staffy every day. The little dog (called Minnie) sat cuddled up next to him and people used to stop and fuss her, bring food, treats, toys and even little jackets. He clearly adored her. Definitely not the kind of life you would deliberately put a dog into but I think she had a happier life than many dogs do.Theyd be horrified at the places mine have lived! Boats, touring caravans, statics, hotel rooms. Theyve never missed a beat and are incredibly happy well adjusted dogs who love their life.
I know its a huge issue for the boating community, people just will not rehome to them, yet lots of them are the gold plated early 50s, no kids, don't work, are usually with their dogs 24/7 and provide the most wonderful life for a dog. But they don't have a garden so its a flat no. Its madness.
I was mostly on the cat and horse rehoming side of things but did see a little bit of dog rehoming when I was working at a rescue. The volume of emails, FB comments was incredible, even for small, regional place and sifting was a huge job. I am not saying this is you OP and probably not any posters here tbh but the number of people who send an application and expect to just be handed the dog they liked the picture of is bonkers. There is no patience and so much entitlement. You take a few days to respond and they already have a cavapoo puppy from their neighbours cousin. People lie on forms, say they will do the training then never turn up, say they will have the dog neutered and don't, say there are no small children in the house then return the dog for growling at their nephew, have the dog for one night then return them for barking their first night home locked in the kitchen, you ask for an update and the dog has been sold or given away and god knows where they are etc etc etc. The policies are in place to cope with the lowest
this is the attitude that I experienced with rescues and it really does put people off. I know there must be idiots but looking at the posts in just this one thread rescues have missed out (or at least the dogs have missed out) on several great homes. It may surprise you but people do look at a picture of an animal and it is love at first sight and they are prepared to cope with it's problems because they feel an attachment. Same with many of the horse's I have bought or the rescues ones or rescue cats I have taken on.common denominator unfortunately, and yes some great homes lose out because of it. But you wouldn't believe people are as stupid as they are until you see it yourself (or see it in the inbox, as was my route to it) and every "silly" rule is there because one, or several idiots, made the rule necessary.
I would certainly trawl the free ads again before foreign rescues. There are nice dogs out there where people are in dire straits and the uk rescues won't take any more. The eastern European rescue dogs I know have all arrived screwed up. When I was looking my criteria was friendly adult small dog and found several to choose from that fit the criteria and the one she got was ideal.I'm another who has given up on UK rescues. I shan't even try in the future especially based on everyone else's experiences. I found the attitude when we considered this last time (7 years ago) just not worth it. The only box we couldn't tick was that we didn't ask for their leaflet as to how to leave them money in our wills. Must have been our failing.
We were both here all day, had our own land, offered to take a larger dog and could have coped with reasonable problems.
The only breed societies for us based on our experience would be GSD and BC and I don't want another of either breed.
If I wanted another dog I wouldn't want a puppy although that is what I may have to have.
I shall apply to some of the foreign rescues.
this is the attitude that I experienced with rescues and it really does put people off. I know there must be idiots but looking at the posts in just this one thread rescues have missed out (or at least the dogs have missed out) on several great homes. It may surprise you but people do look at a picture of an animal and it is love at first sight and they are prepared to cope with it's problems because they feel an attachment. Same with many of the horse's I have bought or the rescues ones or rescue cats I have taken on.
Not everyone is an idiot. If people want a dog why should they wait for the rescue to get around to deciding what they should have in the rescue's view. Far easier to look elsewhere.
I get my cats from a rescue. I just walk in, sometimes ring up before, tell them what we want and they discuss it and show us what might work. Works very well. I have sometimes gone for one sort of cat, walked past a cage with another in and instantly fallen for it. The rescue got rid of 2 cats to me that way in addition to some of the others I took for a different purpose.
I think with a dog it would be reasonable to visit the dog a couple of times, take it for walks etc to make sure dog and people can cope with each other. That way the rescue could see the person they were dealing with and inexperience or unsuitability would be very obvious. No problem with a home visit but the requirements must be reasonable.
I'm not sure all rescues want to rehome dogs. (one rescue we went to was equally unhelpful about cats) I'm afraid I was starting to get the impression they were more keen to get donations rather than homes.
Age restrictions are just rubbish. The average 70 yo nowadays could probably outwalk the dog. People's families may well help in the case of hospitalisation. Before applying many will have considered what will happen if they are ill or die. Plenty of older less mobile people may perfectly suit an older dog who is also less mobile. They could sit on the sofa together
Next time if I want a dog I shall explore foreign rescues or places such as free ads (or wherever) The can't be any less unpleasant.
This. Mum would go look at one and fall for it. The rest of life would then be rearranged around the new dog.I'm another who has given up on UK rescues. I shan't even try in the future especially based on everyone else's experiences. I found the attitude when we considered this last time (7 years ago) just not worth it. The only box we couldn't tick was that we didn't ask for their leaflet as to how to leave them money in our wills. Must have been our failing.
We were both here all day, had our own land, offered to take a larger dog and could have coped with reasonable problems.
this is the attitude that I experienced with rescues and it really does put people off. I know there must be idiots but looking at the posts in just this one thread rescues have missed out (or at least the dogs have missed out) on several great homes. It may surprise you but people do look at a picture of an animal and it is love at first sight and they are prepared to cope with it's problems because they feel an attachment. Same with many of the horse's I have bought or the rescues ones or rescue cats I have taken on.
Not everyone is an idiot. If people want a dog why should they wait for the rescue to get around to deciding what they should have in the rescue's view. Far easier to look elsewhere.
I get my cats from a rescue. I just walk in, sometimes ring up before, tell them what we want and they discuss it and show us what might work. Works very well. I have sometimes gone for one sort of cat, walked past a cage with another in and instantly fallen for it. The rescue got rid of 2 cats to me that way in addition to some of the others I took for a different purpose.
Love at first sight is a fickle thing. If everyone who loved an animal on first sight was the type of person capable and willing to put up with any issues, then far fewer animals would end up in rescue in the first place. A person being able to be patient and open to accepting a "no, we think someone else can offer a better home" is a better predictor of a sensible person who truly wants the best for an animal, imo.It may surprise you but people do look at a picture of an animal and it is love at first sight and they are prepared to cope with it's problems because they feel an attachment. Same with many of the horse's I have bought or the rescues ones or rescue cats I have taken on.
Rescues don't exist to make adopting an animal "easy". If you want an easy route it already exists, no problem, go buy one.Not everyone is an idiot. If people want a dog why should they wait for the rescue to get around to deciding what they should have in the rescue's view. Far easier to look elsewhere.
I'm afraid to my mind that is a somewhat arrogant view. Without meeting the person and seeing where they are coming from. A typical problem of rescues.Love at first sight is a fickle thing.
to my mind, and probably other people's, they exist to get abandoned animals into homes in order they can then move on and have the space to take in another animalRescues don't exist to make adopting an animal "easy". If you want an easy route it already exists, no problem, go buy one.
I will always suggest doing some volunteering at your local rescue if possible. You'll get to hear the stories behind the rules that way, probably lose some faith in your fellow man too and see why some rehoming policies have very little trust baked in.
Next one was where she was simply turned down.
I do think it has become an empire for some people.
Gawd help you if you have a cat, as it seems no rescue dog will tolerate one.
I happened to find my cat in a hedge when he was a microscopic semi blind abandoned kitten. Actually the dogs found him, much to their delight. I brought him home and within a couple of hours he was asleep between the paws of my big hound, and completely accepted by the JRT and the collieX. He would have been a tiny morsel for any of them. I'm pretty sure no cat rescue would have let me have a kitten, and I know that most dog rescues now wouldn't let me have a dog. And yet the rescues are bursting at the seams..
from one rescue when I casually mentioned if I could adopt a cat. No way could any, not a single cat out of about 60 they had, not a SINGLE cat could go to a home with a dog. They would never cope.
The rescue I get my cats from refused my first choice of cat (a very nasty looking ratter) as it would demolish the dog (a GSD) most of the rest of the cats I could have. They were sensible and realistic and worked with me to get a home for one of their cats.
Oh I don't doubt it's a sh1t thing to be doing, the emotional toil alone without the dealing with people thing, and the ones who return the animals after 3 days because they've changed their minds for various reasons.I spent one afternoon helping out in the office of a rescue and ran away screaming. I think everyone should spend at least one day doing it before forming a strong opinion![]()
Not every home is better than staying in rescue. I don't think any rescue animal has to just accept whatever home offers are thrown their way.I'm afraid to my mind that is a somewhat arrogant view. Without meeting the person and seeing where they are coming from. A typical problem of rescues.
to my mind, and probably other people's, they exist to get abandoned animals into homes in order they can then move on and have the space to take in another animal
I have no idea why you think people should struggle to get a rescue dog (cat) They are offering a home to an animal.
If it was an easier route then more would get adopted. I get the impression that some rescues don't actually want animals adopted. They would rather make a great performance over it.
i would be interested to hear your views on age limits?
not possible, I don't haven't had the time. That has been spent in taking in rescue horses. That is doing the real thing myself with seriously damaged horses/ponies (and funding it myself for their lifetimes)
As for faith in my fellow man then I know a large number of suitable people are refused due to the attitudes of rescue staff.
I went to the dog charity in Skiathos with my sister in law who was thinking of adopting one from there. They didn't make it an easy process either. They do a home check (they have volunteers in the UK who will do this), you are expected to visit and spend time with your chosen dog several times, you have to be there with the dog to see the vet and sign all the paperwork before they leave Skiathos and then be at the port in the UK to receive them when they arrive (dogs can't be flown to the UK since Brexit so they have a much longer trip). It will cost up to £2,000 to get the dog to the UK (the charity have put the £2k cap on), plus all your trips to Skiathos and back. Expensive process.I think it’s wrong to bring all these foreign dogs into the country . Apart from the disease risk , so many of them don’t settle in this country , the dogs that seem to escape and live wild mostly seem to be rescues from abroad. These so called rescues are just making money and not offering any back up once they’ve got the money… a relative of mine homed a rescue puppy, he doesn’t have the best of temperaments even though they’ve had him since he was 12 weeks (supposedly) and these are people who have previously had dogs and have socialised him correctly with both people and other dogs but he is not reliable especially in comparison with my dogs who have had similar upbringing but were puppies bought here..
This is what I mean about liability. If kitty had ended up a tiny morsel there would have been nobody to blame but yourself (I can't find a way to phrase that better, I don't mean it to sound how it sounds!) but if the rescue had given you a kitten and the dogs thought it was a snack, the rescue would have to bear that responsibility! If a rescue gives you a dog and there is a kitty-snack related incident, that would be their fault too.I happened to find my cat in a hedge when he was a microscopic semi blind abandoned kitten. Actually the dogs found him, much to their delight. I brought him home and within a couple of hours he was asleep between the paws of my big hound, and completely accepted by the JRT and the collieX. He would have been a tiny morsel for any of them. I'm pretty sure no cat rescue would have let me have a kitten, and I know that most dog rescues now wouldn't let me have a dog. And yet the rescues are bursting at the seams.
My husband is retired. He’s 60. (And lucky). So he can have a small old dog? I suppose that fair as he’s just taken a retired beagle from the hunt!I don't have any views on age limits, no rescue I have personal experience with had any and one frequently advertises dogs who would suit retired people. Small, older dogs usually.
I meant for the dogs benefit! Nice quiet easy-going home for a nice quiet easy-going oldie who just wants a lap and a snuggle for a little while. Harder to find than you'd think.My husband is retired. He’s 60. (And lucky). So he can have a small old dog? I suppose that fair as he’s just taken a retired beagle from the hunt!
I don’t doubt that most people are BS but the requirements rescues state, without people even needing to lie, are ludicrous.
I’ve rehomed dogs directly from the pound, and from a police rescue person. Off preloved and through word of mouth.
I guarantee no rescue would rehome to us.
So why do these rescues who are overwhelmed with animals and have such stringent rehoming rules due to potential liability then spend thousands they haven’t got on veterinary interventions for seriously sick and/or injured animals that they can’t rehome?
This is a genuine question because I’ve often thought they cause unnecessary suffering to a lot of the animals they insist on saving instead of quietly letting them go.