CorvusCorax
Deary me...
To me, consistency with a dog *like this* is no access to raised areas/human sitty downy places ever. Letting them up sometimes but not other times is inconsistency/unfair.
A dog's head will not fall off if it isn't allowed on the sofa ever again. I promise. That's us attaching human emotion to something. You can still have interaction with a dog that isn't allowed on the sofa.
To me it is more unfair to allow a dog to feel unstable/confused/insecure (a growling dog is not a happy one in that moment) because I applied human thinking/emotion to a piece of furniture. With the result that someone may get bitten.
A dog's head will not fall off if it isn't allowed on the sofa ever again. I promise. That's us attaching human emotion to something. You can still have interaction with a dog that isn't allowed on the sofa.
To me it is more unfair to allow a dog to feel unstable/confused/insecure (a growling dog is not a happy one in that moment) because I applied human thinking/emotion to a piece of furniture. With the result that someone may get bitten.