HazyXmas
Well-Known Member
It would be a shame to give up on him, he looks a nice sort & if you want to continue riding, i think that he would be worth the investment in time & money to try & get your relationship back on track
You need someone experienced to come & ride him for you two or three times a week & then also to come & teach you on him once or twice a week as well. You might also find that having lessons on an older 'schoolmaster' type helps to build your confidence & enable you to help your pony even more.
I know that this is very difficult to achieve at this time of year & maybe sending him away to a yard locally where you could go to at the weekends might be much easier. You might find that just a month or six weeks of 'proper' work makes all the difference & that hopefully you will be a partnership by the Spring & able to get out & enjoy him.
I wish you lots of luck. You are not alone, many, many of us have bought horses that we have struggled with. Try your hardest & if it really isn't going to work out, sell him & move on
You need someone experienced to come & ride him for you two or three times a week & then also to come & teach you on him once or twice a week as well. You might also find that having lessons on an older 'schoolmaster' type helps to build your confidence & enable you to help your pony even more.
I know that this is very difficult to achieve at this time of year & maybe sending him away to a yard locally where you could go to at the weekends might be much easier. You might find that just a month or six weeks of 'proper' work makes all the difference & that hopefully you will be a partnership by the Spring & able to get out & enjoy him.
I wish you lots of luck. You are not alone, many, many of us have bought horses that we have struggled with. Try your hardest & if it really isn't going to work out, sell him & move on