Would you be annoyed?

I have read over all your replies now C and you have been quite mean. Seren kicked me in the back and fractured my coccyx, so yes, I lost all trust in her for a long time. I really am surprised at you, fine if your upset that I spoke about it on here, fine, but you have been personally nasty.

Also C, I never offered for you to ride Seren, your friend asked me and I agreed, I did not want or need a sharer or helper. Seren does not need a lot of riding, I said this again and again to you both but I dont think you listed maybe?
I did feel rather pushed into it by your friend. You riding her was not doing me a favour, you did help me at times I do not dispute that but I never asked anything from you to ride my beloved horse, you know how precious she is to me.

I am not trying to paint a bad picture of you, you are a nice person, but I am shocked at the stuff you have said here, I never thought you would be like that C
 
Mogs, I really wouldn't let someone like that get under your skin. She is quite clearly on the defensive as she KNEW she should not have been riding Seren up that track. She was aware of Serens issues and as such should have respected your very clear decision not to ride her on that track.
Pussydeluxe (And deluxe I doubt very much you are) when someone lets you ride a horse that belongs to them, you take more care of it than you would your own because its NOT your horse! Oh and that includes following clear instruction (like please DONT ride my horse up that track) to the absolute letter.
Good grief......
 
Anyone else find it strange that this was just discovered and replied to today - months after it was posted! It sounds all long done and dusted, so why bother dragging it all up??
 
OP, big hugs, you don't deserve this 'abuse' from this person. You clearly have your horses best interests at heart, ignore her she's just trying to create trouble and is clearly trying to hurt you. Ignore her, look after your mare the way you want, your mare will be happy to spend more time with just you and if you want to try to resolve the issues with this woman, if not then move on and carry on giving your mare the care and attention she deserves :)
 
joeanne said:
Mogs, I really wouldn't let someone like that get under your skin. She is quite clearly on the defensive as she KNEW she should not have been riding Seren up that track. She was aware of Serens issues and as such should have respected your very clear decision not to ride her on that track.
Pussydeluxe (And deluxe I doubt very much you are) when someone lets you ride a horse that belongs to them, you take more care of it than you would your own because its NOT your horse! Oh and that includes following clear instruction (like please DONT ride my horse up that track) to the absolute letter.
Good grief......
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Thanks Joeanne. Its sad as I always found this lady very nice in truth and have no hard feelings to her whatsoever. I do not profess to be perfect or blameless in all I do, but I felt this was wrong. Anyway, I have no hard feelings to this lady

Honey08 said:
Anyone else find it strange that this was just discovered and replied to today - months after it was posted! It sounds all long done and dusted, so why bother dragging it all up??
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Have to say, I was a bit confused when I first looked at this, took me a moment to catch up and realise it was my old post. I presume this lady has just gone snooping into my profile and posts...ah well. I will not lose sleep over this, its a shame really...
 
muddygreymare said:
OP, big hugs, you don't deserve this 'abuse' from this person. You clearly have your horses best interests at heart, ignore her she's just trying to create trouble and is clearly trying to hurt you. Ignore her, look after your mare the way you want, your mare will be happy to spend more time with just you and if you want to try to resolve the issues with this woman, if not then move on and carry on giving your mare the care and attention she deserves :)
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Thanks, I really appreciate your support, and that goes to all of you. I don't want to muddy this lady's name as I always found her very nice in truth, shame it turned into this but never mind.
 
It is very dangerous having arguments on cyberspace, texts or anything else like that for that matter.

We all get wound up, and the trouble when your not face to face with someone, everything gets blown out of proportion.... its not real.

Nobody on this forum knows either party. (well 99%)

Yes the sharer did do wrong going up the bridle path she was asked not to go up, but she did state she was aware of the mares footing. I know she shouldnt have done it, and im sure if the issue was dealt with face to face at the start, an amicable descision could have been sorted. The poster was immediately swamped with replies, of get rid of her, and generally really bad mouthing the girl, hence i think her reason for her responce of being felt backed into a corner.

Personally if it had been me and my horses, which i often let people ride, i would have had it out with them, and if i generally was happy with what they had been doing up until that point, i would not of taken the ride off them. Everyone makes mistakes, you just have to weigh up the general situation.

All this forum has done is made two people fall out over a bloody silly error of judgement.

Personally i think life is far to short, move on sort out your differences, and talk face to face!!
 
Hi A

I would just like to say i havent been snooping through your posts to look for trouble, i was told by some one yesterday and it wasnt any of the people that
was at the same place you were when i was riding your horse,
when i logged on to have a look i was shocked not that you were asking adv but to find out this was why you said to me you were the only person riding her from know on and not the real reason
I didnt even know this site existed till yesterday and i was really mad at what you put at the time i just wish you told me at the time it happened like some one said in one of the notes and i would have appologised there and then
i did do wrong and appologise for what i have done and said in some of my notes on here,
I also didnt realise that you were asked if i could ride her and didnt know any thing about this either
as for this site i wont be using it again there was a few really unreasonable coments and nasty ones too when they dont really know what happened and appreciate the ones that were more understanding not just for you but for mr too like i said a i never new i did wrong and appologise again i was just a bid bad to find out this way when i thought we were still ok at the time i just wish you told me I just hope we can put this behind us like one of the comments said life is to short , and for those that have judged me and been a little nasty as well just have no idea what sort of person i am appart from the person i am writing to now so dont be so quick to judge people before you know what happened
i am not a nasty person like you know and hope i have cleared the air a little and you except my appology for what i did and some of the things i said
xx
 
pussydeluxe said:
Hi A

I would just like to say i havent been snooping through your posts to look for trouble, i was told by some one yesterday and it wasnt any of the people that
was at the same place you were when i was riding your horse,
when i logged on to have a look i was shocked not that you were asking adv but to find out this was why you said to me you were the only person riding her from know on and not the real reason
I didnt even know this site existed till yesterday and i was really mad at what you put at the time i just wish you told me at the time it happened like some one said in one of the notes and i would have appologised there and then
i did do wrong and appologise for what i have done and said in some of my notes on here,
I also didnt realise that you were asked if i could ride her and didnt know any thing about this either
as for this site i wont be using it again there was a few really unreasonable coments and nasty ones too when they dont really know what happened and appreciate the ones that were more understanding not just for you but for mr too like i said a i never new i did wrong and appologise again i was just a bid bad to find out this way when i thought we were still ok at the time i just wish you told me I just hope we can put this behind us like one of the comments said life is to short , and for those that have judged me and been a little nasty as well just have no idea what sort of person i am appart from the person i am writing to now so dont be so quick to judge people before you know what happened
i am not a nasty person like you know and hope i have cleared the air a little and you except my appology for what i did and some of the things i said
xx
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I am sorry if I upset you too, I really am, I always thought a great deal of you and hope you know that, your a very kind person C. I know you never meant any harm to Seren, I just felt betrayed at the time that is all. I did think perhaps someone had shown it to you, but I had no idea. I am sorry if my post hurt you but I meant no harm, think we were both hurt. I completely accept, and I hope you accept my apology for upsetting you in any way, take care C xx
 
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