marmalade76
Well-Known Member
In your situation (small established herd of mostly my own horses) I absolutely would expect to be told and would be quite annoyed if I wasn't.
My horses are in a large (12+) herd and are often having new ones put in, which are generally accepted after a few hours. I don't expect to be told every time a new one arrives.
This is exactly what I was going to say (except it's the other way round for me, my set up is more like yours, OP).
If you're renting from a non horsey farmer they quite often don't 'get' things like this.