Amyree
Well-Known Member
I have had a horse on loan since last September and as far as Im concerned is a fairly normal loan arrangement ie to all intents and purposes he is mine in all but name. I keep him at my place, look after him, exercise him, pay for all costs etc etc. The owner didnt really want to sell as he is her first horse but always said she would only sell to me. So I have really bonded with him, love him to bits, not to mention he has helped me hugely with confidence issues. So I was merrily trundling along under the impression she would sell him to me when I had the money for him, which I have told her several times I wanted to do. Yesterday a friend of mine who is a very experienced owner and excellent, competent rider exercised him for me as a favour. This morning I jokingly said to the owner, i'll give you £1000 right now, today, and she turned round and said Ive changed my mind, im never selling him. Also then proceeded to tell me she didnt like this and didnt like that, including my friend riding him. For info, she brought him here on livery and then didnt want to ride him and was more than happy for me to loan him, she is quite an immature girl and I think basically doesnt want to give up rights over him but doesnt want to do anything with him. It is my yard and I will not be dictated to by her, regardless. I dont want to give him up but I also dont trust her now. I am in the process of getting him fit and jumping again and dont trust her to not suddenly want him back when he is. I cant see how we can really carry on, I have offered several times to draw up an agreement which suits both of us but I dont intend for it to include a list of people she doesnt want me to let ride him! I dont want to mess around like this and have really begun to think this could be my lifetime horse, which is what I want ie have him for the rest of his life untill either he or I drops. So would you try and persuade her to sell or would you tell her where to go?? And if you tried to buy what would be a reasonable price? He is a 10 year old Section D, quite smart but quite unfit at the moment and only doing hacking. He has been nicely schooled in the past but would really need to go back to basics with jumping. Saddle, bridle and a couple of rugs were to be included in the sale. She originally said £1700 which I think is unrealistic then said she would sell to me for £1200. Sorry for the essay but this has really upset me, I really thought he would be mine before too long but now I feel almost like I shouldn't ride him and get him fit for her to take back :-( x