Llee94
Well-Known Member
I have a lady that has been riding my horse for the last year since she lost her horse. She is a good rider and a really lovely lady as well as being a close friend.
However, what was originally supposed to be a hack every now and then over the summer soon turned into her riding him 3-4 times a week during the season and taking him out competing and even hunting. I was fine with all of that as I was just pleased he was getting all the attention (I got him because I felt sorry for him and he very much plays second fiddle to my competition mare, although he still got hacked/schooled 5-6 times a week and competed with me when I had a free weekend from eventing!) At the beginning we agreed on the sum of £50 a month (for riding him once or twice a week) which she always paid on time, but she doesn't really help out around the yard, feeding, mucking out or poo picking. She literally turns up, rides and then goes again. I have even transported him to lessons she has booked because she is running late and she didn't even offer petrol money, even when the journey was a 40 mile round trip. I think she gets a very good deal but am starting to think maybe I should ask for more as £50 doesn't even begin to cover what he costs and I hardly get to ride him anymore.
This year she is wanting to carry on riding him which is fine by me as I have a youngster to break in and bring on. I will be choosing his riding schedule so that he isn't over galloped or jumped, but I think she has these visions that he will be her next event horse (he is 15 this year, has soundness issues and in my eyes, should be starting to wind down and just have fun). She wants him to have bar shoes on, even though he has been fine with normal shoes on but she thinks these may help with keeping him sound, which I am more than happy for him to have if it will help.
My question is, how much would you charge somebody per week to ride your horse more or less full time, for bar shoes (about £100 a set from my farrier) and cover everything else like vets bills, feed, insurance etc and including my labour looking after him and not even getting to ride my own horse.
Also, how would you go about telling her that she has to follow my fitness plan and my rules without being rude. I really like the fact that I have somebody I can hack out with and that he is getting fussed over (during the season anyway!). Should I draft up an agreement? Last year was all very relaxed, but I think if she wants to do more, then maybe we should have something in writing?
Like I said, she is a close friend, a great rider and a really lovely person so I don't want to upset her or come across as rude, but at the same time I don't want to get taken advantage of.
Sorry for the waffle, I hope it makes sense! I have spent all day thinking about it and just thought I could ask on here what other people would do.
TIA
However, what was originally supposed to be a hack every now and then over the summer soon turned into her riding him 3-4 times a week during the season and taking him out competing and even hunting. I was fine with all of that as I was just pleased he was getting all the attention (I got him because I felt sorry for him and he very much plays second fiddle to my competition mare, although he still got hacked/schooled 5-6 times a week and competed with me when I had a free weekend from eventing!) At the beginning we agreed on the sum of £50 a month (for riding him once or twice a week) which she always paid on time, but she doesn't really help out around the yard, feeding, mucking out or poo picking. She literally turns up, rides and then goes again. I have even transported him to lessons she has booked because she is running late and she didn't even offer petrol money, even when the journey was a 40 mile round trip. I think she gets a very good deal but am starting to think maybe I should ask for more as £50 doesn't even begin to cover what he costs and I hardly get to ride him anymore.
This year she is wanting to carry on riding him which is fine by me as I have a youngster to break in and bring on. I will be choosing his riding schedule so that he isn't over galloped or jumped, but I think she has these visions that he will be her next event horse (he is 15 this year, has soundness issues and in my eyes, should be starting to wind down and just have fun). She wants him to have bar shoes on, even though he has been fine with normal shoes on but she thinks these may help with keeping him sound, which I am more than happy for him to have if it will help.
My question is, how much would you charge somebody per week to ride your horse more or less full time, for bar shoes (about £100 a set from my farrier) and cover everything else like vets bills, feed, insurance etc and including my labour looking after him and not even getting to ride my own horse.
Also, how would you go about telling her that she has to follow my fitness plan and my rules without being rude. I really like the fact that I have somebody I can hack out with and that he is getting fussed over (during the season anyway!). Should I draft up an agreement? Last year was all very relaxed, but I think if she wants to do more, then maybe we should have something in writing?
Like I said, she is a close friend, a great rider and a really lovely person so I don't want to upset her or come across as rude, but at the same time I don't want to get taken advantage of.
Sorry for the waffle, I hope it makes sense! I have spent all day thinking about it and just thought I could ask on here what other people would do.
TIA